20/08/2026
Butterflies are cute… but are they paying rent? 🦋
We’re taught that when we meet the right person, we’ll just know. Chemistry, excitement, staying up until 2am talking, checking our phones every five minutes.
But eventually, real life enters the chat.
The butterflies settle. The dishwasher needs emptying. You know their takeaway order off by heart. And suddenly, stability can feel a whole lot less exciting than the beginning.
But does comfortable mean something is missing?
This week on the Knox Mindfulness blog, we’re talking lust vs love, butterflies vs stability, comfortable vs complacent, and why loving someone doesn’t always mean you’re right for each other.
Because maybe the question isn’t “Do they still give me butterflies?”
Maybe it’s “Do I feel safe, respected, connected and able to grow here?”
💌 Read Is Love Actually Enough? What Really Makes a Relationship Work via the link in our bio.
And tell us below: butterflies or stability, which do you think matters more?