30/06/2026
If you have encountered trauma, you may be seeking to understand why it happened and try to contend with the injustices of it all.
This is no easy journey, as your sense of self and the world may have been shattered. There is a smorgasbord of fast recovery on offer in therapy land and online media, but I think, regardless of therapy modality, most therapists who are experienced in working in this area know that this can take time, especially if we are talking about trauma that happened in relationships.
In narrative therapy, we endeavor to make sense of traumatic life experiences, not as a hero's journey but as authentic, realistic stories of struggles and pain. The aim of the work of putting words to the struggles to reconnect us to ourselves and our fellow humans, in the context of political, cultural and gender perspectives.
"Trauma is not a virus to be medicated away, nor a tale to be forgotten, nor a deep sadness to be replaced with reckless optimism. What it can be is a catalyst for different stories – better stories – about who we are, what we value, and how we might live in the ‘after’. And these stories are not happiness-seeking – they are meaning-making, meaning-remaking. They are the narratives of tragic optimism that don’t fall prey to comfortable amnesias or myths of human invulnerability. They harbour no illusions about the indestructibility of our worlds."
The quote above that fits so well with the way we work in narrative therapy is from a beautifully written essay in the online magazine, Psyche.
You are welcome to contact me at Throughline Counselling if you want to learn more about how I work.
https://www.throughlinecounselling.com/trauma-therapy