28/07/2026
𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗧𝗢𝗟𝗗 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧? 🎥
Real people, real beliefs about birth, and where they actually come from.
I asked two young women what one word *childbirth* brings to mind. And again what showed up before anything else was fear. They said it was "Scary." "Traumatic." "Doesn't feel safe."
So I asked them where they think this beleif comes from.
Social media. TikTok, Instagram, a constant feed of other people's worst birth stories, with none of the context. And after twenty years teaching this work, I've watched something shift in the past decade. Normal fear is turning into phobia for an entire generation before they've even lived it.
Here's the thing though: fear itself isn't the enemy. It's motivating. It builds a healthy respect for something genuinely intense — it's not called labour for nothing. What's missing is the other half of the story: the agency, the tools, the knowledge that let you meet that intensity instead of just dreading it.
That's the gap this series keeps finding, conversation after conversation. Not "birth is easy," but "you have more say in this than you think."
That swhy the She Birth book exists. There is something new and inspiring on every page. Something about the wisdom already sitting inside our bodies. If fear feels louder than fascination right now, that's exactly why I wrote it.
On the street with Nadine 🤍