19/08/2026
How a child acts when a parent returns reveals so much about their emotional world. 🤍
​Mary Ainsworth’s famous Strange Situation Experiment showed that only about 65% of children have a secure attachment.
​Securely attached toddlers get upset when a parent leaves, but quickly calm down and feel safe when they return. Insecurely attached children often struggle to be comforted or completely avoid eye contact because they don't view their caregiver as a reliable safe base.
​Be a predictable safe haven: Respond with warmth whenever your child is distressed.
​Validate their big feelings: Let them express sadness or fear without judgment.
​Make reunions count: Offer open arms and reassurance when reuniting.
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Credits: .parenting.science
Keywords: secure attachment, attachment theory, child psychology, developmental psychology, conscious parenting, emotional safety, parenting insights, family dynamics, childhood behavior
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