09/10/2026
Constance Hall
Single is safer, it’s sad but true.
That’s what I think, how about you?
DFV deaths
DFV suicides
DFV stress
Trauma
Depression
Etc
The stats on parental alienation are staggering
Suicides (male and female) are
Many times higher than DFV murders
Reminds me of Russia strategy to attack and harm USA
Without a single shot fired.
Murder yourself , blood on your hands.
Reminds me of the horrific opening pages of ‘How full is your bucket?’ when severe psychological negativity and social disconnection killed 38% of American Soldiers in North Korea POW camps. Highest percentage of soldier deaths during AND after captivity ever experienced. 😱🙈😢
Safety and health first
Single ladies are safer ladies
Sad but true
Single men are safer men
Sad but true
Trust your gut
May you thrive
Love
Phil
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I have withheld my comment on Sam Wood until his bail hearing today to get a better picture.
For those of you who don’t follow this kind of stuff or are overseas, the 2015 series of the Bachelor star’s Sam Wood, it was the year of the “nice guy” the “normal Aussie bloke” angle and he chose and actually did marry Snezana, an absolute bombshell who also happened to be a single mother. So the whole season was framed how much of a nice guy he must be to be considering and finally choosing someone with a kid.
When in reality Snezana could have had 18 kids and a gambling addiction and she’d still have every man on his knees just to be near her. She’s not just hot, she was constantly sweet even in an environment designed to magnify in fighting amongst women.
And apparently they went on to become a power couple of sorts, he created and has since sold a multi multi million dollar fitness program and she was always a huge part of his promotions. Together they’ve had 3 daughters and raised her now grown up daughter.
But today the courts heard that the nice guy Sam has been charged with extremely serious allegations of abuse that include strangulation that left Snezana believing she was about to die.
We also learnt that there was a prior incident a couple of years ago with the victim not pressing charges due to fear of retaliation.
Today Sam was denied bail.
And we learnt that it was Snezana’s daughter who stopped the incident by screaming out and calling the police, potentially saving her life.
I could write all the things we already know, none of us are surprised anymore.
We are just done.
I feel for Snezana, it’s a very brave and heart breaking thing to do, loaded with conflicting fears and heartache.
And we should also spare a thought for Sam’s lawyer who actually had to stand there and with a straight face argue that they may have grounds for a self defense claim.
Which is totally realistic, you know what it’s like ladies when someone half your size is scaring you so much while your screaming at them that instead of reaching out for help or leaving, you have no choice but to throw them to the ground, shove them in a wardrobe and almost choke them to de*th.
You know what I keep thinking about? I heard a man talking about how single mums are hard to date, he had 2 ghost him and now just considers them unavailable. That coincided with a conversation I had with 2 of my besties who laughed at the idea of ever dating again, they have their kids and their hearts are full.
Women are done.
The only women I know who aren’t done are the ones who haven’t had kids yet and really want them.
And I’m glad they’re done, think about what most women are subjected to while leaving their father of their kids, but what most people don’t realise is that on top of that - a woman who has a child to a previous relationship is 5.5 times more likely to suffer abuse in her future relationships?
And most single mums won’t tell you what they have been through, they won’t act vulnerable, they won’t show that kind of weakness, they have their babies to pave a path free of danger for and unfortunately having a “protector” at home is the most danger a women, especially a single mum can find herself in.
This was never a fairy tale, it’s a cautionary one.
Who knows what Snezana’s life has been like since channel 10 presented her with her prize. “Australias most eligible Bachelor” Sam Wood.
But I know I was grateful today to read that she is supporting the prosecution, if we lived in a black and white world that would be a no brainer, easy decision.
But history tells us that it isn’t an easy decision, the right decisions rarely are.
