Arianne Struik

Arianne Struik My name is Arianne Struik and I’m a clinical psychologist/ family therapist and EMDR consultant.

The Institute for Chronically Traumatized Children (ICTC), founded by Arianne Struik, provides training, supervision, consultation, and research on the treatment of chronically traumatized children and their families. After working in child and adolescent psychiatry for 20 years in the Netherlands, where I developed the award-winning Sleeping Dogs method to motivate children that are unable or unw

illing to engage in trauma treatment, I became director of the Institute for Chronically Traumatized Children (ICTC). We started in Perth, WA, and moved to Agnes Water QLD Australia in 2019.

In child protection and custody cases, we often focus on risk, placement, and legal decisions.⁠⁠But we must not forget s...
03/09/2026

In child protection and custody cases, we often focus on risk, placement, and legal decisions.⁠

But we must not forget something essential:⁠

🧠 Children heal through connection.⁠

For children in residential care or separated families, relationships matter deeply:⁠
💙 Contact with parents and siblings⁠
💙 Extended family and community⁠
💙 Former foster carers⁠
💙 Friends, culture, routines, pets, schools⁠
💙 For Indigenous children: connection to land, culture, and Country⁠

These relationships are not “extras.”⁠
They are part of a child’s identity, attachment, and sense of safety.⁠

When children feel they still belong somewhere — to someone — their distress often decreases dramatically.⁠

Sometimes healing starts with very small things:⁠
📞 A phone call⁠
📸 A photo⁠
🌳 Visiting a familiar place⁠
🎂 Remembering birthdays⁠
💬 Speaking kindly about important people in the child’s life⁠

Little things can make a huge difference. 💙⁠

Working with children and young people with chronic trauma can feel overwhelming — especially when dissociation, self-ha...
31/08/2026

Working with children and young people with chronic trauma can feel overwhelming — especially when dissociation, self-harm, preverbal trauma, or severe avoidance are involved.

That’s exactly why I created this recorded EMDR webinar bundle. 🎓

Inside the series, we explore:
🧠 Preparing dissociative children for EMDR
🧠 Processing trauma safely with dissociation
🧠 Selecting targets in complex trauma histories
🧠 EMDR with self-harm, suicidality, shame & guilt
🧠 EMDR for preverbal trauma using the Parent-Child Protocol

These webinars are practical, structured, and based on real clinical work with highly traumatised children and adolescents.

✨ Learn at your own pace
✨ Watch anytime
✨ Build confidence with complex trauma cases

Because even the most complex children deserve effective trauma treatment. 💙

🔗 Learn more:
https://www.ariannestruik.com/calendar-2/rw-webinarpackage-emdr-with-chronic-trauma-in-children/

Children in out-of-home care in Australia experience extremely high rates of trauma.📊 70% exposed to family violence📊 66...
25/08/2026

Children in out-of-home care in Australia experience extremely high rates of trauma.

📊 70% exposed to family violence
📊 66% physical abuse
📊 54% sexual abuse
📊 70% emotional abuse

(Harris et al., 2024)

These children are not “badly behaved.”
They are traumatised.

They need trauma treatment — not punishment 💙

I’m excited to share that I was invited to co-write a chapter with Jenny Dwyer for the second edition of the book:📘 EMDR...
24/08/2026

I’m excited to share that I was invited to co-write a chapter with Jenny Dwyer for the second edition of the book:

📘 EMDR and Play Therapy
by Monaco and Beckley-Forest

Our chapter focuses on working with families in trauma treatment — something that is often essential when helping chronically traumatised children heal.

Children do not heal in isolation.
Attachment relationships, safety, regulation, and caregiver involvement matter deeply in EMDR and trauma therapy.

Dwyer and I will submit the chapter at the end of September. ✍️

Always grateful to contribute to projects that help expand trauma-informed practice for children and families worldwide. 💙

Inpatient trauma treatment for parents and children together⁠⁠Do you know the KINGS program?⁠6-8 weeks inpatient⁠⁠The tr...
21/08/2026

Inpatient trauma treatment for parents and children together⁠

Do you know the KINGS program?⁠
6-8 weeks inpatient⁠

The treatment model consists of three phases:⁠
(1) psychoeducation, motivation, and skills, ⁠
(2) trauma processing,⁠
(3) skill integration and relapse prevention.⁠

Goals:⁠
1) to improve family functioning by reducing trauma symptoms in both children and parents,⁠
2) reducing emotional and behavioral problems in children,⁠

Does it work?⁠

Yes!⁠

Results showed significant reductions in child and parental trauma symptoms and child psychosocial problems⁠
(Lysbert Zeinstra et al., 2025)⁠

https://doi.org/10.1007/s40653-025-00789-9⁠



Why do some traumatised children refuse to talk about what happened?Not because they don’t remember.Not because they don...
18/08/2026

Why do some traumatised children refuse to talk about what happened?

Not because they don’t remember.
Not because they don’t need help.

But because talking can feel too dangerous, too confusing, or too disloyal.

Children with chronic trauma often:
▪️ Protect abusive or neglectful parents
▪️ Minimise or deny what happened
▪️ Carry guilt, shame, and self-blame
▪️ Don’t fully understand why they were removed from home

And without access to their story, trauma processing becomes very difficult.

💙 Trauma healing stories can help overcome these barriers.

What makes them different?
🐾 They are created together with the biological parents or caregivers
🐾 The child does not need to talk about the trauma first
🐾 Parents are supported to take responsibility and understand intergenerational patterns
🐾 Complex situations are explained in language children can understand
🐾 Loyalty and resistance are gently worked with—not confronted

The result?

Children and families begin to reconnect, understand each other differently, and start healing intergenerational trauma together.

📘 Want to learn more?
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Sometimes the children who seem the hardest to reach are the ones who need trauma treatment the most.⁠⁠New research on t...
12/08/2026

Sometimes the children who seem the hardest to reach are the ones who need trauma treatment the most.⁠

New research on the Sleeping Dogs Method shows that even highly avoidant, complex, traumatised young people can become willing and able to engage in trauma therapy.⁠

That matters.⁠

Because these are often children who:⁠
– Say they’re “fine”⁠
– Refuse help⁠
– Avoid questionnaires⁠
– Do not consent to research⁠
– Live in unstable and chaotic circumstances⁠

Studying this group is enormously difficult.⁠
Which makes this research achievement even more meaningful.⁠

A heartfelt thank you to this incredible research team for helping move the field forward. 🐾💙⁠

📚 Read the study here:⁠
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40653-026-00872-9⁠

⁠onderwijs.familiezorg⁠




Many traumatised children and families lost hope. Nothing can help them, they have no futureWrong diagnoses, years of be...
11/08/2026

Many traumatised children and families lost hope. Nothing can help them, they have no future

Wrong diagnoses, years of behavioral therapy without recognising trauma

First step: create hope

You can heal
You can break the cycle
Trauma can be treated

Hope enhances treatment outcomes (Kuijpers-Van Ommen et al., 2026)
https://doi.org/10.1080/20008066.2025.2607191

Believe in these children and families!

Now Available On-Demand: Treating Chronically Traumatized Children with the Sleeping Dogs Method⁠⁠Caption Text:⁠Do you w...
06/08/2026

Now Available On-Demand: Treating Chronically Traumatized Children with the Sleeping Dogs Method⁠

Caption Text:⁠
Do you work with children who avoid talking about their trauma, shut down, or become aggressive when the topic comes up?⁠

They're not resistant.⁠
They're protecting themselves.⁠

The Sleeping Dogs Method helps you uncover why a child isn't engaging—and what you can do to help them safely begin treatment.⁠

🧠 Developed by Arianne Struik, this recorded workshop walks you through:⁠
✔️ Understanding barriers to trauma therapy⁠
✔️ Collaborating with families—even when parents are part of the problem⁠
✔️ Stabilizing, motivating, and preparing children⁠
✔️ Avoiding drop-out and failed treatments⁠

🎓 Includes worksheets, real cases, and clear steps.⁠
📍 Watch anytime. Learn at your own pace.⁠

🔗 Sign up here: https://www.ariannestruik.com/calendar-2/treating-chronically-traumatized-children-with-the-sleeping-dogs-method/

04/08/2026

Last month I interviewed Monica Romei and Annarita Manzo about their clinical work and their presentations on the Sleeping Dogs Method at Italian conferences.⁠

What stood out most was their deep commitment to understanding children who avoid, dissociate, or struggle to engage in trauma therapy.⁠

The conversation reminded me how universal these challenges are — and how important it is that we keep sharing knowledge across countries and cultures.⁠

Trauma may look different in different systems.⁠
But children everywhere need safety, connection, and the right preparation to heal. 🐾⁠

Grateful for this inspiring collaboration.⁠

If you haven't seen the interview already, this is your chance.⁠

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Brisbane, QLD
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