27/03/2026
Check in with your body the next time someone asks for 'just one more thing.' Does your throat tighten? Does your stomach drop? That 'Heavy Yes' is your body trying to set a boundary that your voice isn't ready to speak yet. Trauma often teaches us that saying 'No' is dangerous. Saying 'Yes' to ourselves is how to start healing.
Recognizing your body's clues is step one. Step two is making sure your therapist recognizes them, too. Use this worksheet to see if they're actually hearing you. https://bit.ly/3PVlMHK