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𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘱𝘪𝘴𝘵 + 𝘚𝘹𝘹𝘰𝘭𝘰𝘨𝘪𝘴𝘵. 𝘕𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘺𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘮-𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘴𝘹𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴 + 𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵.
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𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘤 + 𝘈𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘭 𝘏𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨
𝘞𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯’𝘴 𝘙𝘦𝘥 𝘛𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘍𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘰𝘳

29/07/2026

🔥 Every now and then an event comes along that awakens something primal in me.

Dangerous Women is one of those events.

I feel it in my chest. In my belly. In the part of me that has always been fascinated by women who choose authenticity over approval, who keep saying yes to their own becoming, and who have the courage to keep meeting themselves.

These are my people.

Women who are devoted to growth, depth, embodiment and truth.

I already know I’ll leave this event feeling expanded, inspired and more deeply connected to why I do the work I do.

I cannot wait.

Tix in bio 💋

20/07/2026

Money is still one of the most taboo subjects we have.

We will talk about our relationships, childhood wounds and private s*xual desires before we openly talk about what we earn, what we charge, what we want, or the shame we carry around receiving.

Recently, I had a private session with Isabel Lamar exploring money, receiving and the value of my work. Of course, when you put two Scorpios in a room together, we are going to dive straight into the depths of s*x, money and power. 🦂💸

That conversation helped me recognise that although my work has deepened considerably, my pricing still belonged to an earlier chapter of my life.

Money and s*xuality are deeply connected because both reveal our relationship with power.

They show us whether we believe we are allowed to want something, ask for it clearly and receive it without apology. They expose where we over-give, abandon our boundaries, accept less than we desire or make ourselves smaller so others remain comfortable.

I realised I had been encouraging my clients to reclaim their desires, honour their boundaries and stop diminishing themselves, while still asking my own work to remain smaller than it had become.

My pricing reflected the woman I was when I was establishing this work and learning to trust what I could hold. There was genuine care in wanting to remain accessible, but there was also an old belief that caring for others required me to ask for less.

It no longer does.

My work sits where therapy, the body, relationships and erøs meet.

I help people untangle shame and conditioning, reclaim their voice and desire, and stop abandoning themselves to be loved.

I hold the places many practitioners are afraid to enter - with depth, embodiment, nervous-system awareness and care.

I know the value of what I offer now.

From September 1, my private-session pricing will change to reflect the depth of this work.

Perhaps the question beneath both s*x and money is this:

Do I believe I am worthy of what I am asking for?

Oof. This question is loaded with audacity - and I like it. 💸

The new pricing and transition offers are available through the link in my bio 🤍

12/07/2026

For a long time, I believed I had to make myself smaller to be loved.

I swallowed my truth, ignored my intuition, and stayed quiet to keep the peace. I thought being “good” meant putting everyone else’s needs before my own.

What a load of sh.t.

Finding my voice wasn’t one big, brave moment.
It was a thousand tiny decisions to stop abandoning myself.

But there was one moment that changed everything.
The moment my voice was needed to protect someone I loved.

Hundreds of times I could have used that voice for myself, but I swallowed it.
Out of fear.

Fear of persecution.
Of abandonment.
Of rejection.
Of exile.
Of my words being turned on me like swords.

And the truth is, those fears didn’t come from nowhere.
I had lived them.

So I played small.

I cut off my dragon tail, filed down my teeth, and buried my anger.

I thought anger was dangerous.
I didn’t realize my power lived there too.

When I finally let myself feel it, it didn’t burn me alive. It didn’t destroy anyone.
It made me cold. Clear.

It blew away every piece of bullsh.t and revealed a path so pristinely f.cking clear that I couldn’t ignore it anymore.

And now?

I’m done.

Done staying longer than I should.
Done standing in someone else’s shadow.
Done carrying the blame for other people’s projections.
Done betraying myself.
Done teaching people how to treat me.

Because once a woman remembers her power and starts trusting herself, she becomes impossible to silence.

This is what Dangerous Women is about.

The moments that wake us up.
The moments that ask us to choose ourselves.
The moments that change the course of our lives.

✨ Wednesday 3rd September | Byron Bay ✨

For the women who know there is something inside them that can no longer be ignored.

The women who are done staying quiet.
The women who are ready to become dangerous. 🖤

10/06/2026

I’m looking for women who have become dangerous.

Women who have learned to trust themselves.

Women who have stopped asking for permission.

Women who have spoken up when it would have been easier to stay quiet.

Women who have disappointed people by telling the truth.

Women who have left relationships, careers, communities, and identities that no longer fit.

Women who have rebuilt themselves more than once.

Women who have discovered that taking up space is not something they need to earn.

Women who are still becoming.

Dangerous Women is an intimate evening of storytelling, connection, and conversation.

A space for women to share the stories that changed them.

The stories we don’t often hear.

The stories that live behind closed doors.

The stories that carry wisdom, grief, humour, desire, heartbreak, anger, relief, and joy.

The stories that don’t always fit the version of womanhood we’ve been taught to perform.

Each gathering features a guest speaker sharing a chapter of her Becoming Story, followed by reflection, conversation, and connection.

There will be space to listen.

Space to laugh.
Space to cry.
Space to gush.

Space to talk about the things that are often considered taboo.

Space to be witnessed without needing to be fixed.

✨ Guest speaker storytelling
✨ Tea, chocolate and connection
✨ Community and sisterhood
✨ Honest conversations that matter

This is for women who value authenticity over perfection.

Women who are curious about life.

Women who want to hear stories that matter.

Women who are becoming.

📍 Byron Bay
📅 3rd September
🕕 6–9pm

If you’re interested in speaking please pm 🎤🌹

04/06/2026

When women sit together long enough,
something old begins to stir.

The masks loosen.
The armour grows tired.
The stories that have been
waiting in the dark find their
way to the firelight.

One woman speaks,
and another remembers.

One woman weeps,
and another feels her own heart soften.

What heals us is not only the telling,
but the knowing that we
do not tell our stories alone.

Beneath all our different
lives runs an ancient river of belonging,
and when women gather,
we find our way back to its banks.

03/06/2026

You had to poke the bear 🍑

03/06/2026

I’ve been paying close attention to women lately.

I sit with women every week. Women navigating heartbreak, illness, divorce, financial pressure, grief, motherhood, ageing parents, career changes, study, business, and the courage it takes to begin again.

What strikes me most is how many speak as though they are somehow falling short.

Yet when I look around, I don’t see women who are behind.

I see women carrying loads that would once have belonged to an entire village.

Many are working, parenting, caring for loved ones, managing households, maintaining relationships, staying financially afloat, looking after their health, trying to stay fit, youthful, attractive, emotionally available, and somehow keeping up with the endless messages about who they should be.

At the same time, they are moving through the great initiations of the female body itself. Menstruation. Fertility. Pregnancy. Birth. Motherhood. Perimenopause. Menopause. The many seasons of becoming a woman.

What astonishes me is how much has changed in such a short time.

Within a single generation, women stepped into universities, professions, leadership, business ownership, financial independence, and public life in ways many of our grandmothers never had the opportunity to.

The opportunities expanded, but much of the responsibility remained.

And still, so many women wonder if they are enough.

From where I’m sitting, women are doing something quite extraordinary.

I think we just don’t stop often enough to see it.

01/06/2026

The further I’ve gone along in my growth - the less interested I’ve become in all the woo woo.

Women already carry enough mystery, depth, intuition, and wisdom within them.

What I find myself craving now are spaces that feel grounded. Spaces where we can slow down, exhale, and be human together.

Places where we can share our stories without judgement, interruption, advice, or pressure to be anything other than what we are.

A chance to rest, receive, connect, and remember that we don’t have to carry everything alone.

I’ve been holding Women’s Red Tents for over a decade, it’s warm, it’s nourishing, it’s unpretentious and it’s free or pay by donation. Just bring something yummy to share and sit with us every fortnight.

🌹 Women’s Red Tent
📍 Ocean Shores
📅 Tuesday June 2nd

A space for honest sharing, nervous system care, connection, and the quiet medicine of being witnessed.

31/05/2026

The older I get, the less interested I become in spaces that promise to fix me, awaken me, activate me, or transform me into a better version of myself.

The more I’ve found myself drawn to rooms full of women speaking honestly about their lives.

Women sharing the things that are actually happening.

The joys.
The heartbreaks.
The questions.
The grief.
The exhaustion.

The moments that crack us open and the moments that put us back together again.

I think life initiates us far more deeply than any workshop, book, certification, or spiritual concept ever could.

We bleed.
We birth.
We mother.
We love.
We fall.
We survive.

We begin again.

And somewhere along the way, I’ve come to believe that one of the most powerful things a woman can experience is being witnessed by other women who simply get it.

No fixing.
No advice.
No pressure to be more evolved than you are.

Just honest conversation, deep listening, and the relief of remembering you’re not alone.

That is why I keep creating Red Tents.

🌹 Women’s Red Tent
📍 Ocean Shores
📅 Tuesday June 2nd

A space for honest sharing, nervous system care, connection, and the quiet medicine of being witnessed.

28/05/2026

People talk about anger like it is the problem.

I honestly think the real problem is that most people were never shown what healthy anger actually looks like.

Many of us grew up around rage, punishment, screaming, violence, blame, defensiveness, or emotional shutdown.

So we learned to fear anger.
Suppress it.
Disconnect from it.
Judge it.

We became the peacemakers.
The accommodators.
The ones who swallowed everything to avoid conflict.

But the body keeps score when we continuously silence ourselves.

The body knows when something feels wrong.
When a boundary has been crossed.
When something hurts.
When something feels unsafe.
When resentment is building.
When we are abandoning ourselves to keep others comfortable.

Anger is often the first signal.

Not violence.
Not cruelty.
Not abuse.

Protective energy.

The part of the nervous system that says:
“Enough.”
“This matters.”
“You do not get to treat me this way.”

I think this is why so many people become anxious, exhausted, numb, depressed, resentful, or disconnected after years of suppressing themselves.

The fire has nowhere to go.

Anger gives boundaries strength.

It protects what is precious.
It protects the self.
It protects life.

And healing is not about becoming endlessly agreeable.

It is learning how to stay connected to your heart while also staying connected to your fire.

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Byron Bay, NSW
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https://www.deborahwolf.com.au/

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