19/08/2026
When you’re a therapist who works with OCD, there’s an understanding that ERP is rarely as simple as it seems on paper. We get taught that we need to…
Identify the fear.
Build the hierarchy.
Do the exposure.
Resist the compulsion.
Repeat.
And yet, anyone who has actually sat in the therapist chair when working with OCD knows that it rarely feels that clean. The difficult part often isn’t knowing what ERP is. It’s working out what’s actually happening in front of you.
Is this avoidance or a reasonable boundary? Is that question reassurance-seeking or does my client genuinely need information? Is the exposure targeting what’s driving the OCD or just what the symptom looks like? Am I helping my client stay with uncertainty or have I subtly started trying to make them feel better?
There isn’t always a neat rule that tells us what to do next. OCD treatment asks us to keep coming back to function, formulation and process, and to tolerate some uncertainty ourselves while we do it.
ERP might be simple to explain. Doing it well with an actual human being? That’s where the work is.
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