09/09/2026
The meltdown by the front door. The tears over the wrong-coloured cup. Big feelings are exhausting โ for them and for you. ๐ฎโ๐จ
Hereโs something that surprises a lot of parents: a big part of calming down is physical, not verbal. Before children can โuse their wordsโ, their body has to settle. Thatโs where movement comes in. ๐ง
Three that can help: a quick burst of movement to shift the energy, some โheavy workโ like carrying or pushing something (itโs genuinely calming for the nervous system), and you โ staying close and slowing your own breathing. ๐ค Co-regulation before self-regulation, every time.
None of this is about getting it perfect. And with R U OK? Day tomorrow, a gentle reminder: how a parent is going matters too. ๐
The full blog is up now โ link in bio!
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