04/08/2026
If breastfeeding hurts, it's usually not because you have sensitive ni**les. It's usually about how baby is attaching.
To get milk out, your baby needs a big mouthful of breast, not just the ni**le. That allows the ni**le sit right at the back of the mouth where the hard and soft palate meet. When the latch is shallow, the ni**le gets squashed against the hard palate instead. That's what causes the pain, the cracks and the grazes, and it means baby gets less milk too.
There are two things worth looking at.
POSITIONING - Unwrap her so her arms are free. Chest and tummy against your body. Head, neck and body in a straight line. Nose level with your ni**le, head tilted slightly back. Support her neck and shoulders rather than the back of her head.
ATTACHMENT - Brush her top lip with your ni**le and the underside of your ar**la. Wait for the big, yawn-wide open mouth. Aim your ni**le at the roof of her mouth and bring her in quickly, chin touching the breast first, well below the ni**le.
You'll know it's going well when her cheeks look full and rounded, her chin is pressed into the breast, there's more ar**la visible above her top lip than below, and there's a steady rhythm of sucking and swallowing with natural pauses. And it doesn't hurt.
Clicking or slurping, dimpled cheeks, slipping off the breast, fast continuous sucking with no pauses, or any pain at all are worth having looked at. Break the suction gently with a clean finger in the corner of her mouth and start again.
Small adjustments make a big difference, and you don't have to work it out on your own. At Balance Health Kristine Miles is a Physiotherapist and International Board certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC), and sees mums and babies together for a comprehensive feeding assessment.
Call 5952 2244 or book online https://www.balance-health.com.au/bookonline
The ABA Breastfeeding Helpline is also available 24 hours a day on 1800 686 268.