16/08/2026
The thing about going away is that life doesn't go away with you.
It waits.
The emails still arrive.
The tasks at work still pile up.
The washing still needs doing.
The appointments still need organising.
The things on your to-do list are still sitting there waiting for you.
And when you come home, they're all waiting to be caught up on.
I've been home for a couple of days now, and I'm noticing that I'm feeling a little resistant to jumping straight back into everything. I thought I’d come back refreshed, energized and ready to dive into all the things I’d been putting off. But I didn’t.
Life in the outback moves at a very different pace to the one I'm used to. There was more space. More time to just sit and talk. Time between doing things. Time to stop and look around. And I liked it. More than I thought I would.
Now I'm home and the familiar list of responsibilities is waiting for me, and part of me is thinking, do I really have to go straight back to the way things were?
I'm not sure what the answer is yet. I know there are things that need doing. There always will be. But perhaps I don't have to do everything at once. Perhaps I don’t even need to do some of them at all. Perhaps I can ease myself back in rather than feeling like I have to immediately catch up on everything I've missed. And perhaps this is something worth thinking about more generally.
How often do we spend so much of our lives carrying responsibilities that we don't even question whether we need to carry all of them, or whether they could be carried differently?
For now, I'm just noticing. I'm not ready to make any big changes. But I think I might like to keep a little of that slower pace with me.
Do you find it hard to ease back into everyday life after you've been away, or do you come home ready to get straight back into everything?