20/08/2026
The behaviour is the smoke, not the fire. 🔥
When your child is having a meltdown in the middle of the supermarket, it’s so easy to feel embarrassed. You feel the eyes on you, and it’s hard not to just label it as "bad behaviour." I completely get it.
But if we can step back and observe objectively, we start to see it differently.
That behaviour? It’s communication. It’s your child telling you that something in their environment is not okay for them, and they simply don't have the skills to express it in any other way yet.
Next time you're in that tough moment, I want to challenge you to shift from judgment to curiosity. Separate the behaviour from your child and ask:
💭 "What is going on for my little person right now?"
💭 "What do they need from me in this moment?"
When we change the question, we change how we support them.