01/09/2026
Absolutely this!!! 🙌🏼
We spend the last weeks of pregnancy trying to rush past them. What if we didn't?
I see it all the time. Bouncing on the ball, walking the curbs, eating the dates, drinking the tea, trying every trick in the book to coax that baby out a few days sooner.
And I understand it, I truly do. You have grown this baby for nine months. You are uncomfortable and exhausted and desperate to finally meet the little person you already love so much. That longing is real and it is beautiful.
But so much of that urgency is just our rushed society creeping into one of the most sacred seasons of your life. Hurry up. Speed it along. Get to the next thing.
What if, instead, you slowed down?
What if these last weeks weren't something to survive or wish away, but something to soak up?
Here's what I encourage my mamas to do with this time.
Move your body with intention. Stretch. Take evening walks with your family as the day cools down. Be intimate with your husband. Have dance parties in the kitchen with your kids. Let your body do this work gently and joyfully instead of frantically.
Be intentional about preparing your heart and mind for birth. Read positive birth stories. Listen to informative podcasts. Fill your mind with confidence instead of fear.
Spend a day making freezer meals for those tender early postpartum weeks. Spend a Saturday painting birth affirmations for your birth space. Nest with purpose.
And pray. Pray over your birth. Pray over your baby. Pray over your midwives, your doctors, your nurses, every hand that will help bring your baby into the world. Pray over the next season of life that's coming. Cover all of it. Pray, pray, pray.
And if this is your first baby, hear me on this one.
These are the very last weeks it will ever be just you and your husband. Ever.
Go on the dates. Sleep in. Linger over coffee. Watch the movies. Do your favorite things together and be present for them, because your family is about to grow in the most beautiful way, and this particular season will never come again.
Your baby is not late. Your body is not failing. Nothing is wrong.
Trust your body. Trust your baby. Trust God's timing. Your baby knows exactly when to come, and these last weeks of waiting are not wasted time. They are a gift.
Don't rush past them. Soak them up.
This is a beautiful time.