21/07/2026
And trust me, I’ve tried them all.
1. Waking up before the kids.
If you ever want to get your kids to start waking up earlier than they ever have before, try this one 👆🏻🤪Once I accepted that sometimes exercise would happen imperfectly, with kids around, mid-chaos, the pressure came off. And I showed up more, not less.
2. The 8 week challenge.
Great for 8 weeks. Then it ends, and so does everything you built, because it was designed to end and it was never meant to work in the real world.
3. New activewear as motivation.
Lovely. Comfy. Wore it to school pickup instead.
4. The “perfect” program.
I kept re-doing the plan, assuming if it was perfect, I’d never skip a day. It doesn’t exist. Every plan gets tested by a sick kid, a work deadline, a flat week.
5. Waiting until I felt motivated.
The big one. Motivation always follows action. It doesn’t precede it. No-one, and I repeat NO-ONE feels motivated to exercise every time they do it. Waiting for it is how equipment ends up gathering dust on a shelf.
What actually made me consistent wasn’t willpower. It was building a two part system around my defaults, so showing up stopped needing a decision at all.
👉 I’ve turned exactly this into my free Default & Delight guide. Comment DDGUIDE and I’ll send it over.
PS. My FREE Strong At Home workshop is one week away. Get on the list now so you don’t miss it: Comment WORKSHOP and I’ll add you 💛