Our Bella Rose

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Our roller coaster journey with our daughter with Velo cardio facial syndrome. Bella was stabilised and transfered to Mater PICU. Otherwise.

Bella Rose was born on the 8th May 2010 weighing 2.65kg and healthy, or so we thought. We took Bella home three days after she was born, then to return the next day with a very weak, pale, and floppy baby. Thanks to our amazing midwife, we just made it back in time before Bella had a cardiac arrest. There we found out Bella had an interupted aortic arch, VSD and ASD. We were told they could perform open heart surgery to fix this issue and we could be home within 3 weeks with our baby. Unfortunately things didnt go to plan and Bella ended up in the PICU with many complications and many near losses. Bella was diagnosed with VCFS (Velo Cardio Facial Syndrome) the next day. This syndrome is the second biggest syndrome after down syndrome and can affect those with it with up to 180 anomolies. For more information on VCSF look on the VCSF foundation website. To give you an overview of Bellas ten and a half months in PICU I will continue to list what Bella endured. Two open heart surgeries to fix her arch, 3 episodes of NEC (necrotising endocolitis), a tension pneumothorax, too many collapsed lungs to count, a fundoplication, gastrostomy and jajunostomy inserted, a transverse colon stricture removed, many infections, a diaphram plication, many surgical lines and investigations attended to. Just to name a few. Bella was ventilator dependant for the majority of the time she spent in PICU, due to all these complications and inability to wien. However, after her gut surgery when she was about 8-9months old, Bella went from strength to strength. She started to put on weight and was able to manage on just oxygen during the day and just on her CPAP at night. This meant after a time of Bella being stable on these settings we were able to take our precious girl home. So at ten and a half months in PICU we spent a couple of days on the ward and were dischaged home with bella on 1litre of oxygen when awake and a CPAP of 10 while sleeping (mask ventilation). Bella has continued to improve over the last couple of years we have been home and has manage to get off her oxygen and CPAP completely. Bella is still tube fed and will be for a while yet. Bella is also behind in her milestones due to her long hospitalisation and VCFS. We attend many theray appointments and specialist appointments which help Bella along her way. She is an amazing little fighter, and our little miracle. Bella will turn 4 this May (2014). She started kindergarten (mainstream) this year and is loving it. She has made great little friends and all the staff love her. Bella was diagnosed withVelopharangeal insufficiency last year, which means her soft palate isn't working properly creating unclear speech. We are awaiting surgery to fix this problem this year. She is happy enjoying her busy life. This page is set up to take over from the blog my dad started right at the beginning to keep friends, family and others updated about Bellas ups and downs. If it werent for all the prayers and support and the amazing medical teams and our God, Bella wouldnt be here today. Thankyou!

22q clinic today and look who we ran into. Bella always loved Prof. Honey, and as you can see by her smile she still doe...
17/08/2026

22q clinic today and look who we ran into. Bella always loved Prof. Honey, and as you can see by her smile she still does. Dr Honey advocated for Bella so well right from the moment we landed in the pediatric ICU as a bub. She understands 22q like no other Dr we have met. Dr Honey was so happy to see how great Bella is going now. We are very thankful for her guidance throughout the journey.

Our beautiful Bella Rose, you're officially 16 today! You are one of a kind, you make us proud every day. You work hard ...
08/05/2026

Our beautiful Bella Rose, you're officially 16 today! You are one of a kind, you make us proud every day. You work hard at all you do. Your heart is so pure, kind, inclusive and fun. You're loved by everyone that gets a chance to see the real you. You are quick witted cheeky, a lover of footy (AFL and NRL thanks to grandpa and your dad). You adore little ones and they adore you right back. You're gentle, quiet but oh so determined, strong and resilient. You have achieved so much in your life so far. We are incredibly proud of you our gorgeous 16year old! We can't wait to see what you achieve in the years ahead. πŸ’•πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‚πŸ₯³
Thank you all for going on the journey with us. X

This little champ earned herself a medal after her swim carnival efforts. So proud of you our Bells. Last week was spine...
04/03/2026

This little champ earned herself a medal after her swim carnival efforts. So proud of you our Bells. Last week was spine and dental review up at QCH which went well. Not much decline with her scoliosis which is what we wanted to hear. The Ortho spine team will continue to monitor Bella closely until she stops growing... excited to find out she is still growing 😊.
Bella has settled in well to year 10 and is doing lots of great things, and always working hard.

20/01/2026

Thank you all for the prayers, the review went much better than it started last week. We had a different delegate that listened instead of arguing today. Her assessment of Bella's needs will go to someone higher up prior to making their decision. Hoping and praying for a good outcome.

Bit slow but happy new year's to all. Bella has enjoyed her holiday break but missed the structure of school. She is loo...
19/01/2026

Bit slow but happy new year's to all. Bella has enjoyed her holiday break but missed the structure of school. She is looking forward to getting back into the swing of things in year 10 this year. I can't believe our Bella is going into year 10, and turning 16 in May! Time goes by way too quickly.
To all our prayer warriors, please say a prayer for us tomorrow as we head into the last part of the assessment stage for Bella's change of circumstance review. Bell has been rolled over with NDIS for 5years now, and her needs are beyond the support that's provided currently. We are hoping this next plan meets her needs better so she can continue to achieve her goals. πŸ™πŸ½

All our praying friends, we are heading into Bella's NDIS review now to hopefully optimise her supports to reach her goa...
09/10/2025

All our praying friends, we are heading into Bella's NDIS review now to hopefully optimise her supports to reach her goals. Please pray it goes well and she gets a budget that meets her needs.

Our miracle girl is 15 today! We are so proud of you our Bella RoseπŸ’•. You are kind, you're inclusive, you are so loving,...
08/05/2025

Our miracle girl is 15 today! We are so proud of you our Bella RoseπŸ’•. You are kind, you're inclusive, you are so loving, you're quick whitted, you're cheeky, you love others with your whole heart. We are so so blessed to have you as our number 1 girl. You have not had an easy life by any means but you never complain, you're always thankful and always give your all. You have taught us so much and we continue to learn from you and how you do life. Thank you for being the calm, cool collected one in our crazy family. Thank you Jesus for 15 years more than what we thought we would get with our amazing Bella. Love you always and forever πŸ’•. Thanks for coming for the ride with us.

I cannot put into words how proud I am of Bell's today. She shone like a star on stage at her dance concert today. She w...
08/12/2024

I cannot put into words how proud I am of Bell's today. She shone like a star on stage at her dance concert today. She was surrounded by her beautiful team, teachers and friends. TADA provides an incredible space where all kids with all abilities have the opportunity to shine. It took a lot for me not to be a blubbering mess today watching all the children shine. They all have their challenges, but they push beyond them, and make the most of this precious life we have been given. We can learn a lot from our children and the determination and strength they have. Thank you Therapy and Dance Association Inc. you are one in a million.

Sorry long time between posts...that's usually a good thing as no major changes health wise. However, thought I'd pop on...
16/11/2024

Sorry long time between posts...that's usually a good thing as no major changes health wise. However, thought I'd pop on to share Bella's big decision of getting baptised tomorrow. Bella has a strong Christian faith that has helped get her through all her many challenges in her life. Tomorrow she's taking the next step, and declaring her faith in Jesus in front of our church family. Bella is super excited about it, and also a bit nervous of getting dunked lol. We are so proud of her and the beautiful young lady she is growing into.
*Picture of Bell's next to her picture at QCH, still on the wall. This week we were up there for dental review which was all good, as was cardiac review the week before:)

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