09/06/2026
She waited her entire life for that message at the end 🥺🩵
And yes, Spirit of course maintain their sense of humour 🚬
This kind of question is one I get often:
“Why are some people seeing signs and receiving messages and others aren’t?”
Or
“I’m trying everything I can to connect with them, but I don’t see or sense anything. Does it mean they aren’t there?”
And firstly, they are always there. Always trying to maintain connected. Without exception.
But there are two main things that stop people from experiencing their connection with Spirit:
1. Expectation
&
2. The heaviness of their Greif
When we expect a sign, or a message to show up in a certain way - we get spirit world tunnel vision. We miss all of the communication that is already happening because we are searching for something particular, and that perspective places a limitation on spirits ability to interact with us.
We create our own reality, and if we create a reality where “spirit can’t send messages”, or it “happens to others but not for us”… then Spirit are limited to work with us in the reality that WE have created.
We make subconscious decisions that they are limited by.
We have to be open, optimistic and completely trusting to have a strong connection to the spirit world.
And secondly, the other reason our connection can be hindered with our loved ones is greif.
The spirit world exists at a higher frequency… and we have to usually lift our own frequency in order to feel them and interact with them. So when we are so overwhelmed with and stuck in the heaviness of grief, sometimes it can keep us at a distance from the place where they are now existing.
And there’s no bypassing grief, we have to process it fully. But what we can do is allow ourselves the grace to have moments of lightness throughout our grief, and sometimes those moments are enough to let in a connection.
I explain all of this and so much more in my book if you’re interested to understand more. 🩵