Courtney Dwyer Aligned Living

Courtney Dwyer Aligned Living Courtney is an Aligned Living Advocate. She specialises in aiding others to heal & align their lifes https://www.courtneyjdwyer.com/pages/link
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I’ve lived an outrageously seductive, indulgent, lavish, Magickal & mysterious lifestyle that enabled me to unlock all p...
17/11/2021

I’ve lived an outrageously seductive, indulgent, lavish, Magickal & mysterious lifestyle that enabled me to unlock all parts of me.

A life that laid the foundations for the embodiment of who I am today & the work I served almost a thousand clients with.

The work that will become my life’s work as a Research Psychologist & Therapist.

A world that defies everything we’ve ever been told, that embraces the shadows whilst unmasking the illusions to the light.

My Awakening to my higher self, the embracing of my magickal gifts as an intuitive. The mastering of my sexual energy & life force.

I’ve come to realise something; men have significantly influenced my life.

In many different ways & in many different types of connections. Personal, professional & magickal.

As I come into a time in my life where I am removing all patriarchal influences around how I work & live; coming into deeper alignment with my feminine essence.

I can’t help but feel a sadness for the recognition of just how LOST feminine wisdom is.

Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE men.
I ADORE men & deeply respect them.

But, where are the ways of the women?

Why has this connection been lost in society?

In both sexes?

I am a woman, in a man’s world, being taught to live a man’s life.

There’s so much I could speak to with this.

There is so much that is misunderstood about being a woman.

Such as being told when we bleed to ‘get over it’ & ‘keep showing up’ in life.

The physical, mental & emotional processes we go through with our cycles as women, men could never, EVER begin to understand - no matter what they say. They just don’t go through it. Period. (Dare I say!).

Yet, we live in a society that doesn’t actually account for anything like this, or giving birth, how we think & the different ways we behave.

The ways we operate, create, learn & contribute ARE different.

Yet, with a world so masculine orientated; it’s no wonder women try to be equal compared to men. We have no true reference point dignified throughout our cultures, to feel equality within our own feminine nature ourselves.

We aren’t equal. We’re not even comparable.

As a woman, the more I create space to live according to my true feminine nature; the more my world changes.

In riveting, moving & beautiful ways.

😼🌹









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Life is always happening for youYou just have to be open to seeing the bigger picture. "Don't worry, be happyIn every li...
09/09/2021

Life is always happening for you
You just have to be open to seeing the bigger picture.

"Don't worry, be happy
In every life we have some trouble
But when you worry you make it double
Don't worry, be happy
Don't worry, be happy now"

I’ve spent some timeComing back fromThis ideaOf... being a leaderAn influencerA woman with a followingWhen I expanded in...
21/06/2021

I’ve spent some time
Coming back from
This idea
Of... being a leader
An influencer
A woman with a following
When I expanded in COVID
A team of ten
Quantum wealth
Scaling in business
I had to take a step back
Because
It all became
Too much
I didn’t want to
Be
Projected on
Relied upon
Seen in this way
I
Identified myself
Too much
Took on
All the responsibilities
Of my team
My clients
My followers
I worried
Too much
I had to
Let go
But
I couldn’t
So
I burnt out...
I reduced all this
It took me over six months
To get my lifestyle & my schedule back
To “re-work” my own system
That I had figured out
That gave me
The freedom lifestyle
And everything I wanted to achieve
Yet, it took me getting there
To realise
That’s not what I truly wanted
The connection
To me
Was no longer there
Because...
I gave it to everyone else.
So, I took a step back
Now... here I am again...
I’ve taken my time
And slowly
I’m still
Rebuilding
Restructuring
And integrating all those lessons
Which will last a lifetime
And set the blueprint
For this new way
For even when
We create on our own terms
No matter what
There’s always
Another way
We just have to be willing to STOP
Break down
Break through
Re-align
Create space
To adjust the way
To your way
In this case..
MY WAY
YAY!
😛💗🙏🦋🌹

Normalising not being ok & coming into greater self acceptance..I’m feeling called to write againTo speakI’m scaredI fee...
19/05/2021

Normalising not being ok & coming into greater self acceptance..
I’m feeling called to write again
To speak
I’m scared
I feel vulnerable
Afraid of what might come out
What people might think or have to say behind my back
The judgements
Alas, this is all a reflection of the inner dialogue that has washed over me of many months now
Sometime late last year, I found myself in the midst of a spiralling depression & crippling anxiety
How?
When I’d had expanded into one of the best years of my life
With a booming self made business & personal brand
Uplifting others
Live in Community
Connection
How could this be?
That I became riddled with racing thoughts of self ridicule & paranoia?
The inability to get out of bed, when I did it felt tragic. Everything became exhausting, immensely difficult, overwhelming & confusing...
This is what it looks like...
You don’t see the signs at first
I kept telling myself “I got this”
That I’m capable
Comparing that current self to my past or even recent self was the worst of all
I KNEW I could do better
But I couldn’t
My mental health became an issue
It just creeped up on me
And when I burnt out, it still took me another six months to begin to understand my process
What I was going through
For those of you who have been with my journey this last few years...
You would have witnessed how happy, energised & joyous I was
How devoted I was to my work
How far I came in expanding that passion into a full time business ... helping others
Writing, sharing, creating & help transform the lives of others was my passion
It still is
But when I had every reason to be happy
I became the most depressed I had ever been
I built a coaching business on healing, integrating trauma, self actualising & celebrating life with what one is passionate about, from my own journey of doing so
It’s been baffling coming to terms with a mental health crisis that struck for “no apparent reason”
So now, despite my fear - “Fear Not Fear” - as my tattoo of long ago says; I am expressing once more... through writing, more poetry & in new forms I have been exploring, which I will share as I go..
To raise awareness on mental health issues...
To support myself in integrating.. in, coming to terms with.. this
Maybe, in one sense or another, claim some sense of dignity back after feeling like I massively “dropped the ball” because I couldn’t “show up” anymore
But I also know that part is a story
Reality is, I wasn’t showing up for myself anymore....
So, above all.. I guess I’m sharing to normalise this.. experience
I felt at one point last year.. so... pedestaled, projected upon ... even as I said things like “I am not this or that, I am just like you” I could feel they landed on deaf ears
Many of these things were great... it wasn’t until I lost my s**t these things became not so great
Really... In sharing parts of this process with you all, online, for those of you that are curious, resonate or are a bit nosey 😜
I think I’m humanising myself once more
I’ve been doing this almost entirely alone... with a couple close supports
now, re-actualising back into the fullest expression of Courtney, can only be experienced for myself when I’m with others & I’m experiencing them experience me
And I’m experiencing them too
So have at it, shall we?
I’m back people
Sort of
Let’s see 😘

100% of what I share online is for me. What I let or want the world to know is me...To see more of me.And I think it’s s...
18/05/2021

100% of what I share online is for me. What I let or want the world to know is me...

To see more of me.

And I think it’s safe to say the same about the rest of the world too...

I am (we are) either validating, processing or reflecting a part of ‘Me’.

No matter the intention or the message.

Social media & the internet is another outlet of expression..

A soundboard
A playground if you will
A field of exploration, self discovery & EXPANSION!

Lifestyle changeIs truly about making room for what matters mostAsking those questions like “What’s really important to ...
05/05/2021

Lifestyle change
Is truly about making room for what matters most
Asking those questions like
“What’s really important to me?”
“What does my body require?”
“What does my soulful expression desire, to be sustained & fulfilled?”
Then making those daily changes is a commitment; that usually requires saying ‘no’ to a lot of things.
Or, re-working your commitments around these things.
They become
Non-negotiable
For without them
You are not your best
You achieve nothing
You run on empty
And then life runs you
To live a lifestyle of alignment
It’s about putting what matters to you most, first
Even if it’s a dance class
Or a scheduled day in bed
Time with the fam
Committing to only one or two big tasks or days of appointments outside of your routine; because your sanity & well being is worth more than the pressure to “get things done”
Focusing on only a couple things that are of value to you;
Writing that book
Completing that webpage
Cleaning out your belongings
Whatever that may be
The important thing to realise, especially as a woman...
Is we require space
And so does everything else we do
Because that’s when the magick happens
You’re coming from essence
You’re in flow with your life
Because things are aligning based on how you WANT to align with them
Not because, you “have to” or “should”
The true art of being free, is mastering to BE, with a strong connection to ME.
🌞🙏💜

From my diary this morning...🦋Some days... Self Love is turning my alarm offSleeping in past 11amGoing to the beachBuyin...
29/04/2021

From my diary this morning...
🦋Some days...
Self Love is turning my alarm off
Sleeping in past 11am
Going to the beach
Buying coffee ☕️ AND juice 🥤
Just because - why decide?!
Reading my book
Journalling & writing poetry ✍️
Enjoying the sound of the waves crashing in the ocean 🌊
The blue teal capturing my eyes in a mystical daze..
Tanning with my t!ts out
Letting my belly fat roll
& just being (present) 🙏
Sometimes when we’re tender or emotional, it doesn’t require a big process or rationalising it out.
Sometimes all it needs is space
After an epic & big last year, all I’m giving myself now, is space 💜
🙌🙌🙌

12/04/2021

Venus going into Pluto, this is going to activate the reptilian brain of Pluto. Venus brings in the passion & love. Let’s be mindful, this fiery energy is really exemplified with the energy of the Sun.

Quite masculine, charging forward, in reverse this card tells us that we may be a bit blinded by the light, a bit over-powered by these fiery forces that are coming out to us. We could move too quickly through things.

You can see an abundance of money, or business opportunities in particular. We want to think with the Sun energy about masculine type things. We want to think about being disciplined, sticking to our goals, sticking to where we want to be moving forward.

Lots of sensuality as well, things will be super juicy but not too much fire alright! Otherwise, we will wear out & get to the end of the month & wonder what the heck happened to us!

Take care of yourself this New Moon with self love practices & moments of deep breathing amongst the chaos.

Balance this with fiery outlets such as strong gym sessions or outdoor activities.

Plan your week for optimal results!

What’s alive for you with this fiery New Moon?
Xx

New Moon in Aries 12.04.21 - Nineteen The Sun Reversed - Force. Fierce Sensuality. DriveThe sun reinforces the seed of i...
12/04/2021

New Moon in Aries 12.04.21 - Nineteen The Sun Reversed - Force. Fierce Sensuality. Drive

The sun reinforces the seed of intention. The fact that we can magnetize a lot towards us during this time. So make sure that we’re fertilizing those seeds, we’re giving them enough light.

What the reverse card tells us is, if we have too much light in our space then we can cause things to wilter & burn out. So what does this mean for you in practical terms?

Go to a comfortable pace. Be ready for opportunity, there’ll be much opportunity coming your way.

However, ensure you don’t burn out. That you can keep that fire, that spark & that flame within you. Be mindful with this New Moon that you’re driving masculine structure - the ‘acting quickly’, ‘projecting energy’ - doesn’t burn you or eat you up. Be sure you can utilize this energy over the rest of the month.

You’ll have creative inspiration thanks to Queen of Fire (Month Oversight Card, see earlier posts) that you’ll take action on quickly. Be mindful of self-care, bringing back in the Queen energy as well. Maintaining your Queendom.

You can see an abundance of money, or business opportunities in particular. Think with the Sun energy of masculinity. Think about being disciplined also & sticking to goals, to where we want to be moving forward.

Ensure that you’re keeping balance - coming out of the Libra Full Moon of the previous month - the balance with self, when the Sun was trine with Aries. Aries being self, Libra others, & the balance.

This New Moon is about integrating all that we learnt during that time. Acting on that, much opportunity coming your way. You're going to have creative passion with the overseeing card for the Queen of Fire.

Additionally, Venus going into Pluto, is going to activate the reptilian brain of Pluto. Venus, brings in the passion & love. Be mindful, this fiery energy is exemplified with the energy of the Sun.

Things will be super juicy with much sensuality. Watch that fire though! Otherwise you’ll burn out.

Check-in to keep your discipline structures in place.
Yet, ensure you’re having fun, this seems to be important. The fatherly sun energy can be a little too strict sometimes.

New Moon in Aries 12.04.21 *Ritual Savie This!* Nineteen The Sun Reversed Force. Fierce Sensuality. Drive  Venus going i...
11/04/2021

New Moon in Aries 12.04.21 *Ritual Savie This!*

Nineteen The Sun Reversed Force. Fierce Sensuality. Drive Venus going into Pluto, this is going to activate the reptilian brain of Pluto. Venus brings in the passion & love. Let’s be mindful, this fiery energy is really exemplified with the energy of the Sun. Quite masculine, charging forward, in reverse this card tells us that we may be a bit blinded by the light, a bit over-powered by these fiery forces that are coming out to us. We could move too quickly through things. You can see an abundance of money, or business opportunities in particular. We want to think with the Sun energy about masculine type things. We want to think about being disciplined, sticking to our goals, sticking to where we want to be moving forward. Lots of sensuality as well, things will be super juicy but not too much fire alright! Otherwise, we will wear out & get to the end of the month & wonder what the heck happened to us! Take care of yourself this New Moon with self love practices & moments of deep breathing amongst the chaos. Balance this with fiery outlets such as strong gym sessions or outdoor activities. Plan your week for optimal results!

What’s alive for you with this fiery New Moon? Xx

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