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09/06/2026

Here is Mystic Mammas astral insights...

dearest hearts~

the month of JUNE has swiftly heralded in some new currents and energetic winds that are expanding our horizons and moving us into new experiences and a greater sense of expansion…

JUPITER in CANCER has been fortifying the emotional ties that bind us within a central force field which holds us in a sense of community, place and belonging…

we are feeling a deeper appreciation for the people that hold a special place in our hearts knowing that we carry them within us wherever we roam...

if we look up toward our night skies, we will likely catch a glimpse of JUPITER + VENUS, like two sparkling jewels together in close proximity…

this union of the “Great Benefics,” JUPITER the planet of expansion and luck exactly aligning with VENUS, the planet of love and harmony in CANCER on 6/9, is a beautiful imprint of heart-based healing energies rippling through the cosmos…

this is a hopeful signature that allows us to soften and feel a greater sense of connection, love and attunement to the sentient realms…

which brings us to our NEW MOON in GEMINI on June 14th opening us to the inception of a new cycle of our multi-dimensional relationality and creativity…

https://mysticmamma.com/astral-insights/

with all my love~

Mijanou

MM

07/06/2026

Someone on Facebook today: "I wake up on my day off and immediately feel anxious. I have nothing urgent to do. Why can't I stop?"

Genuine answer: because the nervous system doesn't know it's a day off.
It's been trained — over years, usually — to equate stillness with danger. With falling behind. With not being enough. Rest stops feeling like rest and starts feeling like risk.

That's not a personality trait. That's a pattern with a history.
And patterns have roots.

If you recognise this — the anxiety that fires even when everything is technically fine — and you're tired of managing it rather than actually shifting it, I have clarity call spots available.

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06/06/2026

When life is too full to feel

My niece called me this week.

She's had a year that would floor most people. Her dad died suddenly — traumatic, no warning, no goodbye. She got a new job. She bought her first house. And in the middle of all of that, she's been holding her mum up through the kind of shock and grief that doesn't have a floor you can find yet.

So she hasn't had time to meet her own grief. Not properly. It's there — she knows it's there — but there's always been something more urgent in the way.

On top of all of that, there are the complications that come with wills and step-parents and money and family systems doing what family systems do under pressure. Layers on layers on layers.

We talked for a while.
We didn't resolve anything — there is no resolving most of it, not yet. What the conversation held was something else: the weight of being seen. Of having it named. Of not having to perform okayness, just for an hour.
That matters. Even when it isn't the whole answer.

Here's what I know from years holding space for people:
we are not good at noticing how much we are carrying.

Not because we're weak or unaware. Because life keeps moving and we keep adjusting to the load, and at some point the load becomes the background noise we've stopped hearing.

The question worth asking isn't am I coping?
Most of us are coping.
The question is: what is coping costing me?

Some common signs it might be worth reaching out:
A big loss — death, relationship, a version of your life that's ended — that you haven't had time or permission to actually feel

A major transition where you've had to hold yourself together for everyone else (new job, new home, family illness, a difficult year)

A legal or financial complication — wills, separations, disputes — that carries emotional weight no-one talks about because everyone is focused on the practical

Physical symptoms that tests keep coming back clean on — palpitations, fatigue, persistent tension, sleep that doesn't rest you

The sense that you're functioning fine on the outside, but something underneath has gone quiet

A background flatness or low-grade exhaustion that's been there so long it no longer registers as unusual

Caring for someone else's grief or wellbeing while your own sits in a waiting room

The feeling that if you stopped moving, even briefly, something would catch up with you

You don't have to be in crisis to reach out. In fact, the best time to reach out is before the thing becomes a crisis.

A single conversation can do more than you'd expect. Sometimes what the body needs isn't answers. It needs to know it's been heard.

If any of this landed for you, a clarity call might be the most useful thing you do for yourself this month.

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05/06/2026

Your voice is not just sound.

It's everything you birth into the world — your words, your silence, your presence, the way you hold yourself in a room where your opinion isn't welcome.

In the work I do, we call this expression. It lives in the 5th chakra. And it doesn't come only from your thinking mind.
It comes from your body.
From your fear.
From the unprocessed story that never got to finish.
From the part of you that learned, very early, that being heard was conditional.

So when people talk about "speaking your truth" — I want to ask: which truth?

The one that's genuinely yours?
Or the one that's been shaped by years of learning what was safe, acceptable, and unlikely to cost you something?

Because there are so many ways a voice gets hijacked.
Silence that became a habit.
Oversharing that feels like connection but leaves you emptier.
Interrupting because you stopped trusting you'd be given space.
Softening every sentence until the real thing disappears inside it.
Saying the hard thing — but from a wound, not from wisdom.
None of it is the voice.

Here are two questions worth sitting with:
When you speak — are you expressing, or are you managing?
And the one underneath that: do you actually know the difference?

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04/06/2026

I have been living with a chasm.

On one side: the life I thought I was supposed to be building. Big. Visible.
The kind that changes things at scale discovers the penicillin, builds the movement, becomes the person with millions of people tuned in.

On the other side: the life I've actually been living.
And for a long time, the chasm between those two things has had a very particular effect. It hasn't just created pressure. It has quietly, consistently diminished everything on the smaller side.

Not loudly. Not dramatically. Just a kind of background static that makes it hard to fully land inside your own life.

A travelator effect. You walk forward and don't seem to get any closer to the big life you've decided you should be targeting.
The energy it takes is one thing.
But the real cost is what it does to everything else.

Because here is what I have let that chasm diminish:

-Saving a bug. Or a worm. Or an injured bird.
-Crying at the beauty of a sunset.
-Gasping at a full moon I didn't expect to see in that moment.
-Being completely captivated by a tiny tree snake in its own environment.
-Building a garden that became alive with pollinators and fruit.
-Keeping a marriage alive and loving for twenty years.
-Holding my brother's hand as he took his last breath.
-Texting someone every morning and every evening because I know they need someone to care about them.
-Making sure my mum is cared for in her old age.
-Packing up my house and my life and moving far away to a little seaside town, to create real space. Not metaphorical space. Real space.
-Writing a song. Writing a book.
-Painting the house so it feels like a space that meets me just the right way.
-Loving my dog as hard as I can, because I can't shake the grief of losing my last one.
-Never giving up on being available as a therapist, especially when it's not well monetised.
-Always trying to be healthy in mind and body and spirit.
-Singing every day so the music in me stays ready. I never want to let it die.

These are not small things.

The chasm just taught me to call them that.
And I have decided that I am done letting it.

Maybe I can let the chasm of unmet expectations stop diminishing the bigness of the smaller things.

That line came to me recently and it felt like a paradigm shift. Because underneath it is something I haven't fully said out loud before:
Striving for bigger and more it doesn't actually feel true for me.
It never quite has.

And somewhere along the way I absorbed, from culture or conditioning or the very air we breathe in spaces that worship scale and legacy and reach I absorbed the idea that this means something is wrong with me.

It doesn't.

It means I have been living inside someone else's definition of a life well lived. And measuring myself against it. Constantly.
This post is the start of the unlearning.

And if any part of this resonates if you have your own list of things the chasm has been quietly calling small I hope it's the start of your unlearning too.

01/06/2026

The Art of Living Now While Still Planning Ahead

There's a tension most of us carry without ever naming it properly.
On one side: the pull to be present.
To actually live in your life rather than perpetually preparing for it.
To taste the food, feel the sun, notice the people in front of you.

On the other side: the very real need to plan and build toward something.
Goals matter. Direction matters. A life with no forward thought isn't freedom — it's just drift.
Most of us swing between the two.
Full throttle planning mode until it all feels airless and mechanical.
Or "just go with the flow" — until the lack of structure starts to feel like anxiety wearing a relaxed outfit.
Finding the middle is a genuine skill.

And it starts with learning to read your body.

When you've tipped too far into planning
There's a particular quality to over-planning that lives in the chest and jaw. Thoughts looping over the same territory again and again, as if certainty is just one more plan away.
You find yourself half-present at dinner, on holiday, in conversation — always somewhere else, managing the next thing.
The body in over-planning mode has forgotten it's safe right now.

When you've tipped too far into just being
This one sneaks up differently.
It starts as relief — putting the plans down, letting things unfold.
But over time it produces its own quiet malaise.
A vague restlessness in the gut and legs.
Energy with nowhere meaningful to go.
Time passing without direction.
The body knows the difference between genuine presence and hiding in the now.

Finding your way back — over and over
This isn't a problem you solve once.
It's a practice you return to regularly, for the rest of your life.
That's not failure.
That's just what it means to be a conscious human being in an uncertain world.

What helps:
Check your body before you check your calendar.
Thirty seconds in the morning.
Tight? Floating? Flat?
You can't navigate from the middle if you don't know where you're starting from.
Let plans be a container, not a cage.
Structure exists to hold your energy and give it direction — not to become the thing you serve.
The plan exists for you.
You don't exist for the plan.

Some sentences worth keeping close
"I can hold what I'm building toward and still be here right now."
"I don't need certainty about tomorrow to be okay today."
"Plans are a direction. Life is what happens inside them."

If the tension has become something heavier
Sometimes this isn't about balance at all — it's something sitting underneath. An unprocessed grief.
A fear of wanting things in case they don't arrive.
A nervous system that learned early that the future wasn't safe.

If that resonates, a clarity call is a good place to start.
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30/05/2026

Mystic Mamma Full Moon Post:

dearest hearts~

let's begin by remembering that Life is full of peaks and valleys...

we are moving through a period of great change and collectively there is so much rising to our awareness...

on a personal level, we have been processing the way we are changing and under the influence of this FULL MOON in SAGITTARIUS rising on May 31st, making sure our arrows are pointed in the direction that we truly want to go...

there is a yearning that lives inside us that is longing to express its own wild nature...

and the spiraling gesture of the Life force is always seeking to express itself through us...

the yearning inside of us reaches to touch that place where we dissolve beyond the boundaries of you and i, us and them, into the oneness that is our very nature...

here is where the new world already exists, here is where the new world is felt within our hearts as we access this place of oneness...

this SAGITTARIUS FULL MOON brings truth that can help liberate us by offering us a more expanded vision of what exists, what can hold the paradox and where our freedom lies...

SAGITTARIUS is ruled by JUPITER so this is about having a broader perspective of our SOUL journey...

SAG is about what we choose to put our faith in and about the VISION that we hold with our intention...

20/05/2026

When the noise is too loud to hear yourself think!

There’s a kind of stuck that doesn’t feel like stuck.
It feels like busy.
Like overwhelmed.
Like everything is moving but somehow nothing is going anywhere.
You’re not short on activity.
You’re short on clarity.
And those two things feel identical from the inside — but they call for completely different responses.
Busy wants more structure.
More lists.
Another system.
Clarity wants something else: a moment where someone outside the noise can hold the whole picture without flinching, read what’s actually running underneath it, and say what they see.

This is what a clarity session is.
Not a consultation.
Not someone reflecting your words back at you in a slightly more organised format.
Something that goes a level beneath the presenting story — to where the actual pattern lives — and names it in a way that makes it possible to move again.

If you’ve been carrying something you can’t quite resolve — a decision that won’t land, a direction that keeps shifting, a version of yourself that feels just slightly out of reach — it might be worth an hour of this kind of attention. The kind that sees the cage clearly enough to say so.

Book a clarity session:
One hour. One thing. Precise, without agenda about where it should land.
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18/05/2026

The exhaustion isn't coming from the work. ⬇️

It's coming from the gap between how you're actually wired to operate — and how you've been showing up to stay in the game.

Most high-achievers I work with aren't burned out because they're doing too much.

They're burned out because they've been flexing into a mould — of leadership, of productivity, of what success looks like — that was never built for them.

And it works. For a while.

Until the ceiling appears.
Until the friction becomes constant.
Until the drive that built everything quietly goes offline.

That's not a strategy problem.
That's a design problem.

Underneath every pattern you keep hitting is a map you didn't draw — installed long before you had a say in it.
Seeing it clearly changes everything.

This is the work I do — with founders, team leaders, and people mid-build on something real.

If this landed, save it for later or send it to someone who needs to read it. 🤍

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