Red Robin Psychology

27/08/2021

Let's say it again together...
~We do not have to rescue little people from their big feelings~

Instead, we:
BREATHE
ALLOW
BE WITH
(and where required... CONTAIN and KEEP SAFE)

Witnessing emotional storms and struggles in those we love can be triggering and uncomfortable. Breathing through our initial reaction and reminding ourselves that it’s not our crisis helps us to bring ourselves back to a place of calm so we can remain compassionately present and peaceful until their storm has passed.

A mantra to tuck in your pocket:

“When little people are overwhelmed by big emotions, it’s our job to share our calm, not join their chaos.”
-L.R.Knost

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Fighting a rare, incurable cancer, but I'm still here!💞 L.R.

21/08/2021

my brain and
heart divorced

a decade ago

over who was
to blame about
how big of a mess
I have become

eventually,
they couldn't be
in the same room
with each other

now my head and heart
share custody of me

I stay with my brain
during the week

and my heart
gets me on weekends

they never speak to one another

- instead, they give me
the same note to pass
to each other every week

and their notes they
send to one another always
says the same thing:

"This is all your fault"

on Sundays
my heart complains
about how my
head has let me down
in the past

and on Wednesday
my head lists all
of the times my
heart has screwed
things up for me
in the future

they blame each
other for the
state of my life

there's been a lot
of yelling - and crying

so,

lately, I've been
spending a lot of
time with my gut

who serves as my
unofficial therapist

most nights, I sneak out of the
window in my ribcage

and slide down my spine
and collapse on my
gut's plush leather chair
that's always open for me

~ and I just sit sit sit sit
until the sun comes up

last evening,
my gut asked me
if I was having a hard
time being caught
between my heart
and my head

I nodded

I said I didn't know
if I could live with
either of them anymore

"my heart is always sad about
something that happened yesterday
while my head is always worried
about something that may happen tomorrow,"
I lamented

my gut squeezed my hand

"I just can't live with
my mistakes of the past
or my anxiety about the future,"
I sighed

my gut smiled and said:

"in that case,
you should
go stay with your
lungs for a while,"

I was confused
- the look on my face gave it away

"if you are exhausted about
your heart's obsession with
the fixed past and your mind's focus
on the uncertain future

your lungs are the perfect place for you

there is no yesterday in your lungs
there is no tomorrow there either

there is only now
there is only inhale
there is only exhale
there is only this moment

there is only breath

and in that breath
you can rest while your
heart and head work
their relationship out."

this morning,
while my brain
was busy reading
tea leaves

and while my
heart was staring
at old photographs

I packed a little
bag and walked
to the door of
my lungs

before I could even knock
she opened the door
with a smile and as
a gust of air embraced me
she said

"what took you so long?"

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Beautiful words by poet John Roedel (johnroedel.com)

03/08/2021

Some good advice from Children's Health Queensland regarding taking to your kids about COVID-19.

30 March 2020 In this everchanging ‘new normal’ of social distancing, shutdowns and empty supermarket shelves the COVID-19 pandemic has thrust upon us, it’s not surprising that people are experiencing some stress and anxiety. And that’s just the grown-ups! Many parents are wondering what the...

01/08/2021

LOCKDOWN UPDATE: To our valued community... you know the drill!

Due to the increased risk and stricter restrictions during this lockdown, we will be shifting to telehealth (phone or video) appointments only until Tuesday. **UPDATED: this will continue until at least the end of this week**

If you have an appointment this week, we will be in touch with options, but as always you are welcome to reach out should you have any questions or concerns.

Please be assured that should the lockdown be extended, we will continue to evaluate the risks, requirements and needs of clients and staff in order to determine how best to provide ongoing safe access to care during this period.

Stay safe everyone!

29/06/2021

LOCKDOWN UPDATE:

The QLD government has announced a 3 day lockdown from 6pm Tuesday 29 June.

For any clients booked in for appointments during this period, please know that as an essential service, we are still here to support you as normal during this time (just with some extra precautions!).

If possible, we request that you opt for a telehealth session via video or phone (we are happy to help with any technical difficulties!).
If you need to attend in person, masks will be required for the duration of the session. As always, high standards of hygiene will be maintained and we ask that you NOT attend in person if you or ANY members of your household are unwell.

To our wonderful community - there are always mixed feelings and often disappointment accompanies a lockdown, and it is important to make room for these emotions. We can also hold steady in the knowledge that we got through this before, we can do it again!

Stay Safe, Stay Kind, and Stay Home.

21/06/2021

Assertive communication (communicating your needs in a clear way while still respecting others) is something that many struggle with - even in to adulthood. It's never too early (or too late) to learn though!

Check out these clear simple examples from Big Life Journal about how to find that important middle ground through 'Assertive Owl Communication'.

11/06/2021

Wise words by McKayla Robbin from “We Carry the Sky”