29/08/2026
Recently my mother asked me if I had put on weight. Asian mothers are renowned for being direct!
Straight away I felt a bit defensive although I know and admit to having gained weight in the last few years in line with most midlife women!
It made me reflect that as women our self esteem is often connected with our body weight and our self confidence can go down as weight goes up!
What is more important is having a strong body (and bones!), feeling energised and working towards making long term health gains which may involve optimising weight if that has been advised by your doctor.
Let’s chase health gains and not a number on the weighing scale.