12/08/2026
One of the more subtle changes women describe during perimenopause is having less tolerance for things they previously managed quite well.
Noise feels more intrusive.
A busy day feels more demanding.
Interruptions are harder to brush off.
A poor night's sleep has a bigger impact.
Sometimes this gets interpreted as becoming less patient or less capable.
But our tolerance isn't separate from our physiology.
Sleep, hormonal change, stress and the amount we're already carrying can all influence how much capacity we have available on any given day.
The circumstances may look much the same.
Our capacity to respond to them may not be.
🧡 Leonie