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When you just don’t seem to have enough time for marriage

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WHEN YOU JUST DON’T SEEM TO HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR MARRIAGE💔

“We just don’t have enough time in the day.” This is one saying I hear repeated more and more often from couples everyday when I do marriage coaching in front of me and on the phone struggling in marriages or relationships, especially those who are trying to bring up a family. They seem to really understand many of the characteristics of a happy rewarding marriage. They have read all the tips and suggestions in books and online on how to improve their marriage. However, when it comes down to actually doing the work necessary to make their marriage work, they feel incapable because of all the demands on their present busy schedule. I have even noticed over the years in marriage coaching they don’t even take the time to do the tasks I give them to save their marriages. They're put in the too hard basket, sadly to say even when they tell me they're dead serious about saving their marriage and working on themselves they don’t make the time or effort.

Marriage in Trouble?

Everyday couples call me or send me a message and are in desperate need of help to fix their relationships and marriages to help them stop arguing and bickering and improve their communication, most leave it too late to fix, or try to fix it themselves and make a bigger mess.

When I call back, there just not contactable. And don’t call me back due to being so busy, very frustrating! This year 2026 nearly all marriages out there that I have not seen and even marriages that I see will END as a result of no time for communication and WORKING too much if they don’t change the way they think, leading to a change in attitudes and behaviours.

So you better start to give your partner your undivided attention and start listening and spending time together for a lovely healthy relationship. I recommend in MARRIAGE coaching a MINIMUM of 10 hours each week is recommended by marriage relationship experts and myself using the time to meet the emotional needs of affection, s*xual fulfillment, intimate conversation, and recreational companionship. If this is not met your marriage will surely die slowly, if you don’t use the love polish as I say to remove the rust of resentment. My new question to couples these days now is,
“Do you have the time to be married?" Sadly most don’t or worse still cannot be bothered.

No one hopefully would deny the relationship between quality time and marital happiness, though many do and wonder why their marriages come to an end. Couples have to regularly relate to one another to have any hope of success. I teach couples that, when two people–either knowingly or unknowingly fail to spend time with one another, their relationship is destined for failure every time.

Yet what is best for a couple to do when they feel like they don’t have enough time to be happy?

Make Time For Your Marriage!

When you feel you don’t have time for your marriage:

1. You steal. Take time, borrow time. Knowing the difference between time spent together and marital satisfaction, a WISE couple will always be on the lookout for ways to steal time, a text while sitting in the shopping centre or at work a phone call in between appointments, meeting one another at home for lunch, etc. By stealing areas of time throughout a week, a couple can feel a closer connection with one another and their love bank increases for one another as emotional points are added.

2. You make time to give points to their love bank. Some couples might be busier than others, and that’s true but you are not busier than everyone else you are as busy as you make yourself. Consider for a moment you see or know a couple with a happy HEALTHY marriage whose schedule is more hectic than yours. They have found a way to make it work, so also you. Believe me, we all have the same amount of time in a week. If you want a healthy loving
marriage, make the conscious decision to spend quality time with your partner. If you don’t make the time, you will never find the time
I promise you. So make the time no excuses, okay? Make your marriage a priority from now.

3. You give time. One of the joys of co-parenting is we can negotiate trade-offs or deals with our partners. One parent can get up early while the other sleeps in. One can entertain the kids while the other goes for a run or go out for a coffee just like the birds in the nest they work together, don’t they? By giving time to your partner for them to rejuvenate or accomplish something they need to get done, they are more likely to have some time to give you. This stops resentment which is the death of all relationships and marriages. Which I have noticed over 26 years as a marriage coach.

4. Stop giving yourself to other people and being a people pleaser. Most couples never consider the need to restrict a family’s commitments for the sake of protecting their marriage. If you never tell your children “no” and set strong boundaries regarding a sporting event, activity, and other time-consuming demands, you probably aren’t doing a good job in prioritizing your marriage remembering your marriage comes first no matter what. Refuse to commit your family to some demands in order to save that time for your partner. It may feel selfish to you but no one will benefit more from a happy marriage than your children won’t they. The one who spends too much time on other people always is the loneliest in the end. Always make your partner the last client of the day. Meaning keeping some energy for them not what’s leftover, okay?

5. You maximize time. For many couples, they spend enough time together to have a healthy relationship, but it’s the worst time of the day. Spending your worst hour with one another when you are most exhausted and distracted is of less value than spending your best 20 minutes together. If the only time you interact with your partner is at the very end of the day, when you're exhausted you aren’t giving them your best time like you did when you first met, remember those days when you couldn’t wait to be together. Figure out when you are at your best and find a way to give your partner some of that time, not the crumbs leftover. When you first met and dated I repeat again. I hope you gave each other the best of you. So do the same as you did then, okay?

Creating a happy marriage is not an easy task. In our high-speed world of noise with a multitude of demands and pressures, it’s easier to choose a variety of pressing issues over spending time with our partner. Yet happy couples have a habit they find a way. Longing to be with one another hopefully they use every tactic possible to find a way to be with each other if they truly love each other. And let’s be honest if your partner doesn’t want to spend time with you I feel you need to re-evaluate the relationship seriously.

Unhealthy couples forever live in the delusion that they simply don’t have the opportunity to be happy with one another. They find an excuse for every reasonable suggestion and slowly allow their relationship to die.

When you feel there is no time for your marriage, steal it, make it, give it, refuse it, and maximize it because without it, your marriage cannot thrive. And that's the truth like it or not. So next time you're thinking of buying something that you don't really need, think of how many hours you have to work to own it and how many hours you won't be with your family, wife or husband. But the more important time for YOU. Retail therapy just does not work it’s short term happiness. Another area for losing time is people-pleasing which is destructive behaviour, as I said earlier first you must please your partner before you go out and please everyone else. Or you may not just have a partner left to come home to one day when they are sick of you not being there. They just may find another who is there for them and listens to them. And that normally leads to something called Infidelity or cheating. And I’m seeing more and more of that everyday in this BUSY, BUSY world.

If you're serious I said serious about renewing your marriage, you've got to read my e-books. This is what thousands of people and couples Australia wide are using as a "handbook" to restore their marriage or relationship. Start by ordering my 7 ebooks, ”Secrets To A Romantic Love Affair In One Week with your partner." Click on this link below to order my set ebooks now! also if not too busy give me a call to help you have that lovely healthy marriage you really want. Contact Robert Online.

Marriage Counselling Sunshine Coast Couples Relationship Counselling with Coach Robert Chambers is a marriage, relationship, coaching program

09/07/2026

Find marital happiness and peace of mind in a few short weeks with……

Coach Robert Chambers – Writer Public Speaker: Manager Owner.

Australian Professional Counselling Services.

Marriage Counselling Sunshine Coast, Relationships & One on One Counselling & Coaching in the privacy of your own home,office,online or anywhere of your choice. Even in a coffee shop or park.

“Are you seriously in need of a lovely healthy relationship, marriage, family and a great life with no emotional pain and truly happy then read on – to the end.”

I have been a practicing family, marriage counsellor, coach since 1997; that’s 26 years of teaching, knowledge years of experience and wisdom to share at 72 years young.

Remember you can never have a lovely healthy relationship with anyone else in your life until you learn to love and respect yourself first.Then invite them into your peace and happiness ❤️

With a background in sales, marketing, electronics, Government security, building interior design, teaching, working in child care and nursing homes and professional ballroom dancing for over 40 year’s.

I bring a vast range of understanding, compassion, empathy,wisdom and skills to coaching and can communicate on the same level with most people due to my background and the many types of work I have engaged in over the years.

Couples Counselling & Relationship Coaching on the Sunshine Coast or anywhere in Australia or any country.

Make sure you check out all my Google reviews.

I’m not your average wishy, washy counsellor, psychologist or therapist. I consider myself more of a communication teacher and teach couples how to love and respect themselves first and create strong boundaries and values so as to have loving healthy relationships and marriages in a very short time.

I just didn’t come out of some university last week and know it all.I have years of experience behind me helping people to have better lives and no pain.

Through teaching excellent communication skills, I give great service and spend many hours on the phone after hours with my clients which others don’t seem to give anymore out there.

That’s why I have more positive google reviews than any counsellor or therapist, psychologist in Australia.

I’m also Guessing You’re Here Looking for a Marriage Therapist, or counsellor in a Last Final effort to Save Your Marriage or relationship. But Here’s The Problem, Traditional Marriage and relationship, therapy and many types of counselling are outdated Ineffective and Doesn’t Work;

ESPECIALLY if Your Wife or husband or partner has already checked out physically or emotionally. I see many couples who have already tried therapy and counselling for months or years with no success and go backwards,then end up seeing me.And it only takes me a couple of weeks to get you back together on a healthy path.

Conventional therapy and counselling were developed during a time when especially a WOMAN really couldn’t leave a marriage for many reasons (economic, shame,fear of the unknown,social, legal, etc.).

Therapy was a way to help two people who had to stay together, make it LESS PAINFUL.

In 2026 your wife, husband or partner can leave anytime…

The necessity to “Work It Out” has long gone, yet the marriage therapies remain the same as 30 years ago or more!

In a new era, marriage therapy requires a TOTALLY DIFFERENT approach, if a marriage or relationship in trouble is to be saved and become totally healthy.

Dragging somebody kicking and screaming into therapy when they don’t want to, is NOT going to get you the results you want…

It’s just going to get you many wasteful hours getting nowhere

and lots of frustration and more PAIN. Don’t get me wrong…

I offer therapy and counselling if that’s what you really want, but before you decide, read this entire page and make an informed decision!

If you are like 97% plus of MEN who contact me or women; therapy is definitely the WRONG CHOICE for YOU!

All you’re going to do in therapy is rehash your old fights and indiscretions, talk bad about each other, and make the situation worse and go around in circles.

And EXPECT ME to be the judge and decide who’s right and I’m not going to do that. Consider me your teacher in communication. Teachers don’t judge.

The MOST LIKELY OUTCOME is that you will reinforce her or his decision, to leave, is the right thing to do! No more PAIN!

I can definitely offer you a more effective solution to save your marriage or relationship that doesn’t involve talking about your feelings, problems and the past. It’s called taking action and looking at a wonderful future together. You can never talk your way out of a situation you got yourself into. This is today’s problem out there.

I also offer one on one coaching if you prefer to work individually on your own personal development and self-esteem.Which is a great alternative if you want trust and respect from your partner.

I feel that today’s definition of the family is unrecognizable compared to the definition forty, thirty, even twenty years ago. Chaos has become typical of the modern family. Over the years, I have attempted to bring some order, with “Keep it Simple” strategies and address issues resulting from convoluted dysfunctional family life whom many lead today.

In our society, the traditional family has expanded to include exes, parents of exes, blended families, stepchildren, lovers, adopted children, and in laws, etc.

Most children at the preschool level in Australia these days do not know what it is like to have a mother and father live in the same house leaving many children these days screwed up with no role models or know what boundaries are and heading towards dysfunctional relationships themselves and scattered lives as they learn their behaviour and attitudes from their parents.

When it comes to families, I have seen it all. I also address explosive issues, which can drive families, marriages and relationships crazy. Also, l share my honest thoughts on conflict and chaos in those families.I will help and teach you to develop strategies, by supplying the right tools to resolve conflict, repair yourself, relationships and marriages that you are part of, regardless of what state they are in if you are serious in having a better peaceful life and relationships.

Flexible marriage coaching and counselling.

One main aspect in relationships I have learned over the years is to “love yourself.” Because you cannot love another unless you love and respect yourself first.

If your partner has left, your relationship is in trouble.

Then The First Step to Healing Your Marriage Is to Take:

“EXTREME OWNERSHIP and RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS”.

And Then Invite “your partner” Into That Space.

You Can’t Give What You Don’t Have, And If You Can’t Find Your Own Happiness, How Can they Trust YOU To Lead them to their Happiness?

My name is Robert P Chambers a Sunshine Coast-based relationship & marriage, family coach who teaches couples how to remove any resentment and to communicate, identify and honour their love languages and learn actionable steps that lead to a lifetime of happiness.

Call now 0409380375 to connect with me now.

To start fixing yourself first and your marriage, relationships and your family today.

WHAT I OFFER AT AUSTRALIAN PROFESSIONAL COUNSELLING SERVICES

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Exceptional services no one else can compete with.

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Home visits.I am the only counselling Services in Australia that i know of to offer home visits in the comfort of your own home for better results to anywhere in Australia.

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I give excellent online video services to anywhere on the planet.

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I offer 24 hours 7 days a week contact when no one else does.

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I don’t just offer marriage, relationships counselling I cover ….

Depression counselling

Anxiety counselling

Grief counselling

Online workshops

Individual counselling

Trauma counselling

Inspirational coaching

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I offer the lowest hourly rates in accordance with our after-hours services and the superb help we offer.

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I only work with those who sincerely want to change their marriage, relationships and lives for the best.

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Same day service no long waiting like others i normally see clients within 24 hours. If needed, I can see you 24/7 if you require. I am extremely flexible with my time slots for busy people.

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I cater for same s*x relationships also

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Please note * If you are struggling financially and you seriously want help to change your life for the best my first session no charge. Call for more information.

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So don’t wait another day,give me a call now and have a talk on ways i can help you change your life and relationships for the best.

0409380375 💕

And yes I am fully Qualified.

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