17/07/2026
A huge part of the work I do, is softening your “I’m the only one who can do it” and your “I’ve got to control the narrative” attitude. Here’s why 👇🏼
It’s not your natural emotional response, it’s your involuntary nervous system response, based on years of condition your body to think that allowing someone else to take control is unsafe.
From the littlest things like, someone else doing the groceries for you and getting the wrong things. Or folding and putting away the laundry to only find it’s been out away wrong. These seemingly small, inconsequential things are LOUD AF to the nervous system of a busy woman, carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders, with the added blow of perimenopause or menopause.
Sounds stupid right? It’s not your fault. Your stress response has spiked your cortisol, and eventually your estrogen has followed the same trajectory. Both break down into toxic molecules, meaning your liver has to work harder and is likely struggling with the load. Now histamine starts to follow the trend and your body is reacting to random foods and products like it never has before. The extra layer here? More histamine leads to more estrogen production! So now the viscous cycle continues.
All the while, more estrogen means less progesterone. Progesterone production is suppressed. So the hormone we need to feel love, to feel appreciated, to make heart to heart connections, is gone.
Estrogen is an excitant molecule, meaning more go go go messages.
Progesterone is a relaxant, working like magnesium to soothe and slow the nervous system.
Can you see the pattern?
More stress -> more toxic waste -> more isolation -> less relaxation -> less love -> less connection
This is your body, influencing your emotions, influencing your nervous system, influencing your ability to feel love, gratitude, appreciation and connection.
This is the result of a body out of regulation for decades.
This isn’t your a conscious decision.
This isn’t your fault.
This doesn’t have to be your reality moving forward.
Comment or DM me PEACE if you’d like to unravel your body’s unregulated hormones and emotions and step into a life of calm