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23/11/2023

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Honouring the life of Joan Witney with Simplicity Funerals
14/06/2023

Honouring the life of Joan Witney with Simplicity Funerals

We say goodbye to a much loved, well respected member of the Stockton community this afternoon.
17/04/2023

We say goodbye to a much loved, well respected member of the Stockton community this afternoon.

Honoured to be helping the Nancarrow family farewell their mum this week at France Family Funerals.Service details at ht...
25/03/2023

Honoured to be helping the Nancarrow family farewell their mum this week at France Family Funerals.

Service details at https://www.fff.com.au

Did you see this last night? How we say goodbye to a loved one needs to be as unique as they are.
21/06/2022

Did you see this last night?

How we say goodbye to a loved one needs to be as unique as they are.

Step inside the community-led, not-for-profit funeral service that's changing the culture around death while saving people thousands of dollars.

28/03/2022

THE CONSEQUENCES OF SCATTERING ASHES ⚱️🔥🏉

You may have seen the photo of Krystal Clayton spreading a small portion of her nan's ashes at the SCG on Friday night? She took the opportunity when fans swarmed Buddy Franklin after he kicked his 1,000th AFL goal.

In November 2013, at least six families took the opportunity to spread their person's ashes on the MCG during an open day. But they scattered much larger amounts than Krystal did. And there lies the issue. (And the reason why sporting grounds no longer have open days.)

At the time, the MCC warned people against trying to secretly scatter remains. Club spokesman Shane Brown told the ABC that "in the ashes there are small fragments of bone and that can be quite sharp and jagged and for footballers and cricketers running across the turf that can be quite dangerous".

"The most important message for anyone who wants to do this is to understand that over time their loved one's ashes will actually be removed from the MCG and discarded into waste, because we replace the turf quite regularly as part of our maintenance program," he said.

Now, let's bust a couple myths I've been seeing online in response to part of Krystal's grandmother being scattered on the SCG.

"It's just ash."
FALSE.

Cremated remains are not 'ash'. They are bone fragments. After the cremation process, many parts of the bones are left in tact though very brittle. They are then broken down into smaller bits in what's called a cremulator. The cremulator grinds the bones down into very small fragments or powder, resembling 'ash'. They're often described as coarse sand.

"It's good fertiliser, like blood and bone meal."
ABSOLUTELY FALSE!

Cremated remains are bones that have been burned at about 900 degree celcius for around 90 minutes. They're not 'ashes' at all. They're ground up bone. These cremains have a very high pH and this alkalinity can be toxic to plants. Any nutrient values the bones held before cremation (calcium, potassium, phosphorous) are null and void after cremation because they become locked away and unuseable. When you scatter ashes, you may as well be scattering salt. (Yes, it's time we spoke about the environmental consequences of the scattering ashes! And no, you cannot grow at tree out of cremated remains.)

*My thoughts*

I think it's great that Krystal took part of her nan to the footy in a zip-lock bag. I know many people who carry cremains around with them. Some look for opportunities to scatter them, while others just like having their loved one with them on occasions.

The cremated remains after a cremation weigh between one and two kilos, depending on the body type of the person cremated. From watching the video, I can see that Krystal scattered a small portion of the her nan's ashes on the SCG. That's the key to ensuring minimal environmental damage.

If you're planting a tree in memory of your loved one and want to incorporate their cremains, make sure you mix the cremains with lots of soil and keep the cremains away from the roots. It's all about dilution.

There are products being developed that you can treat the cremains with, allowing the eventual release of those nutrients that are tied up in the bone fragments and making the cremains much more environmentally friendly.

If you've got any questions, pop them in the comments and I'll do my best to answer them.

xLisa
www.thebottomdrawerbook.com.au

"May the hills come down to greet youMay the rocks give shelter in the stormMay the dust be soft beneath your feetAnd th...
28/01/2022

"May the hills come down to greet you
May the rocks give shelter in the storm
May the dust be soft beneath your feet
And the dark give rest before the dawn
And until, until we meet again..."

This sunday, with friends and family, down by the lake we'll say our goodbyes to Bert - in the way he would have wanted.

Yes. Yes we should
02/01/2022

Yes. Yes we should

We say pretty words about dead people. There’s something about Death that forces the poet in us to the surface. When we lose someone we love, we suddenly feel free to speak beautiful, flowery sentiments of gratitude, and affection, and admiration; words that we’d kept bottled-up for years; words...

Andew Garfield gives the most amazing speech about losing his mother.If you don't have time to watch the whole interview...
24/11/2021

Andew Garfield gives the most amazing speech about losing his mother.

If you don't have time to watch the whole interview, skip to around 4:24

Andrew Garfield gets emotional when talking about the recent loss of his mother, and relates her life to the life of Jonathan Larson, the man he portrays in ...

I've been honoured this year to be able to assist couples who married in the face of a terminal diagnosis.It's a tough g...
22/11/2021

I've been honoured this year to be able to assist couples who married in the face of a terminal diagnosis.

It's a tough gig, to manage the happy and sad and the emotions of not only the couple, but their family and friends.

Having the right businesses to support you is vital. They need to have experience, be patient, and flexible as there are many changes that need to happen at a moment's notice.

Hopefully, you will never need this list of Newcastle and Hunter Wedding vendors who are able to couples where one is terminally ill.

But, it's here if you ever do.

If you or your partner are dealing with a confronting diagnosis, planning a wedding can go from being one of the happiest moments of your life to one of the saddest. It can be challenging to remain positive, and to communicate your wishes to your guests, especially when facing a life-threatening ill...

26/09/2021

In a suburban warehouse in the US, Seth Vidall and one of his employees have built a "vessel" they hope will usher in a more environmentally friendly era of mortuary science.

18/08/2021

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