27/03/2026
Day 5 of 30
🌿 Rewiring my brain with a joy walk.
Today I brought a friend, or better yet she met me at the soccer ground
She is one of my favourite friends and we met through our babies (that are not babies anymore 🤣)
There is something that happens when you go looking for beauty with another person. You start pointing things out to each other. You notice things they would have missed. They notice things you walked straight past. Suddenly you are both looking, really looking and the world gets a little bigger.
Research tells us that social connection plays a meaningful role in how we process difficult emotions. Of course, Stacy could fixe anything. It’s not her job… and, human beings are not designed to carry everything alone.
When we feel safe with someone, genuinely safe, it can become a little easier to be present. A little easier to slow down and a little easier to notice something other than what is weighing on us.
And right now a lot of us are carrying a lot.
Grief about what is happening in the world. Worry about people we love. The heaviness of watching suffering on a loop. And sometimes that weight makes us want to withdraw, stay inside and not burden anyone else with how we are feeling.
That is completely understandable. And, what I have noticed in the research, in my work, and in my own life, is that when we share a simple, gentle experience with someone we feel safe with, something shifts. Of course, not dramatically, or permanently but often enough to feel a little less alone with it all.
A joy walk alone is a powerful practice. Yet, a joy walk with someone you feel safe with adds something. Two people looking for beauty in the same world that is also breaking their hearts. That is not a small thing.
So today’s invitation is simple.
Text someone… not only to talk about everything that is heavy. Just to say hi & come outside with me.
Day 5. Better with a friend. 🌿
Who would you take on a joy walk? Tag them below 👇