09/06/2026
This isn't selfish. It's survival. ๐ฟ
So many of us were raised to give. To care for everyone else first. To put our needs at the very bottom of a list we never finish.
And then we wonder why we're exhausted, resentful, and disconnected from ourselves. Champion Women Laura Connarty-Duncan said something in our conversation that stopped me:
"There is no one more important than you in this life. Even if you were raised to give back and look after others โ you have to look after yourself first. Because you can't do anything well unless you start with yourself."
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Read that again.
Putting yourself first isn't a betrayal of the people you love. It's the only way you can truly show up for them.
You can't pour from an empty cup. You can't lead, mother, partner, or create from a nervous system stuck in survival.
Filling your own cup first isn't indulgent. It's the foundation everything else is built on. ๐ฟ
:studio_microphone: Listen to my full conversation with Laura on The Bend Like Bamboo Resilience Podcast โ link in bio.
Podcast: https://www.bendlikebamboo.com/bend-like-bamboo-podcast
Read the Vlog: https://www.amandacampbell.com.au/blog/why-resilience-isnt-about-pushing-harder-with-laura-connarty-duncan
Your turn. What's one small way you can put yourself first this week? ๐