Flourishing Space, Emily Wilkinson

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Flourishing Space, Emily Wilkinson Welcome to the space where compassion meets poetry and creativity so that you can flourish!

We’re often taught to respond to exhaustion with individual solutions, like getting more rest or getting better at self-...
25/09/2026

We’re often taught to respond to exhaustion with individual solutions, like getting more rest or getting better at self-care. These things are important, but they are usually not enough.

The systemic problems we contend with as therapists and health professionals are enormous. So the change needs to happen on a structural level. Self-care alone doesn’t achieve this, because it happens at an individual level.

If we want to effect real change, we need to come together.

And when we change the system, we can flourish.

I’m excited to share that I’ll be speaking at the 2026 .org.au National Conference at the beautiful .I’ll be taking the ...
22/09/2026

I’m excited to share that I’ll be speaking at the 2026 .org.au National Conference at the beautiful .

I’ll be taking the stage for my presentation ‘Returning to What Was Taken: Creativity and
Decolonising our Practice’, on Tuesday 20 October 2026.

Looking forward to connecting with everyone and being a part of this fantastic event!
If you’re coming along, be sure to say hello - I’d love to see you there.

https://aapi.org.au/AAPiConference2026

There's a reason your best ideas come to you in the shower.Cognitive neuroscientist John Kounios at Drexel University ha...
21/09/2026

There's a reason your best ideas come to you in the shower.

Cognitive neuroscientist John Kounios at Drexel University has spent years studying this. In the shower, you're cut off from the usual noise of the outside world, there's white noise, limited visual input, and nothing really demanding your attention.

Other researchers studying creativity and the brain, like Roger Beaty and Kalina Christoff, have traced this type of thinking to a specific network. When you're doing a cognitively demanding task that requires you to focus, your brain's executive function systems become more active.

But when your mind is able to wander, the default mode network becomes more active. This includes during rest and passive tasks, and it's where imagination takes hold and new ideas and connections tend to form.

In other words, the moment you stop trying so hard, your brain taps into a really important source of creativity.

This is the network that is most active during daydreaming, rather than during back to back client sessions or note writing. When we're constantly planning and “doing,” there's little room left for the mind to wander.

The shower works because it effectively gives the brain permission to allow your thoughts to drift. A slow walk does the same thing, and so does a repetitive creative task, or driving a familiar route.

Protecting time for being unhurried and unfocussed is one of the most creative things you can do.

Where do your best ideas find you?

It is okay if you are finding things hard lately. It is understandable if the workload feels like too much and the paper...
11/09/2026

It is okay if you are finding things hard lately. It is understandable if the workload feels like too much and the paperwork never ends.

Most of us belive that when we feel this way, it’s a personal failing. But it’s actually a structural problem.

Slowing down and asking for support are important. And they are signs that you are human.

There is something magical that happens when we explore our creativity together. We quickly realise our playfulness neve...
08/09/2026

There is something magical that happens when we explore our creativity together. We quickly realise our playfulness never left us, it just needed a little room to grow.

I am so grateful to host this amazing community where people feel comfortable enough to explore their creativity. Thank you so much for sharing these beautiful words with me!

Sometimes the most restorative thing you can do is step outside and look up. Notice what is already there, the sky, the ...
07/09/2026

Sometimes the most restorative thing you can do is step outside and look up. Notice what is already there, the sky, the branches and the way light moves through leaves.

We move so fast that noticing becomes something we have to relearn but it is always available. Just outside the door, or the window, or the gap between one appointment and the next.

I hope this walk reminds you to notice something today.

How strange is it that we sometimes forget to have fun? In adulthood, it’s fun and play seem to happen after everything ...
03/09/2026

How strange is it that we sometimes forget to have fun? In adulthood, it’s fun and play seem to happen after everything else is done, if there's time left over (which there usually isn't).

But experiencing joy, play and delight are part of looking after yourself.

If you've been waiting for permission, this is it. Go and do at least one thing you love this week!

"I'm not creative" is one of the sentences I hear most often from helping professionals. Sometimes said with a little sa...
01/09/2026

"I'm not creative" is one of the sentences I hear most often from helping professionals. Sometimes said with a little sadness, as though it's simply a fact about themselves they've made peace with. But it’s not a fact.

When we say "I'm not creative," we’re expressing an internalised story about who gets to create and who doesn't. A story that has never been universal, and was never designed with our flourishing in mind.

Can you remember the moment you decided you weren't creative? I'd love to hear about it in the comments.

As adults, the consequences of not playing are rarely considered. We might experience increased rigidity, difficulties w...
31/08/2026

As adults, the consequences of not playing are rarely considered. We might experience increased rigidity, difficulties with emotional regulation, loss of social connection, and a gradual disconnection from the curious, spontaneous parts of ourselves that give our lives meaning.

I often notice this in my work. When I ask the helping professionals I work with about play, or about the last time they did something purely for the joy of it, they usually can’t remember. And they typically don’t ask their adult clients about this topic either.

This is one of the many reasons I do this work. Play, creativity, and connecting with our inner resources are foundational to sustainable practice.

What are you focusing on to develop sustainability in your work?

This time next week I'll be in Brisbane at the Compassion Symposium by the School of Psychology at the University of Que...
29/08/2026

This time next week I'll be in Brisbane at the Compassion Symposium by the School of Psychology at the University of Queensland, hosted by Dr Stan Steindl and Dr James Kirby. You might know Stan's wonderful podcast and youtube channel, Compassion in a T-Shirt, https://lnkd.in/gfyStF-3

On the Friday evening there is a Keynote Address, by Professor Derek Griner and a full day of talks on the Saturday, all with a compassion focus, which is one of my favourite topics!

This includes a plenary session by the awesome Dr Hayley D Quinn, following the release of her book earlier this year, "From Self-Neglect to Self-Compassion."

So, in the geekiest way possible, I'm pretty excited!

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