16/04/2026
Listening Deeply and Knowing how to Heal Ourselves…
We have just returned home from 2 weeks in Castlemaine. For me personally, it’s a place which ‘tops me up’ in a way no other place can. It’s naturally beautiful in way which resonates deeply with me, the call of bird-life is pleasing to my ear and softens my nervous system, I have a lot of friends in this place and there’s so much mutual love between us (in fact, I have a lot of acquaintances too, and there’s a lot of love between us also). There are creatives and conscious people, and I feel a sense of kinship, even if I don’t know them personally, and some of my favourite healers are in this part of the world. I also have a love for some of the fine foods accessible in this region😜
I returned home (to Melbourne) feeling the best I have felt in a long time. So many parts of myself have been stimulated in all the right ways. We had some family time (our grown children wanted to come and visit us – I know, sweet right?!), we had precious time together as a couple (rare, after 25 years of raising a family, but a sign of things to come), we had walks in nature, time with friends, deep conversations and contemplations, eating and drinking in fun places, arts and culture, yoga, healing and spiritual healing, and time on the land… soaking up the natural world in a way which restores balance.
I find myself with a significant ‘bounce’ in my step today (it’s a non-work day, so have time to potter). Washing, cleaning, settling back into my own home in the city. I can’t help reflect how amazing I feel. I have not felt this good in a loooooooong time.
And it makes me contemplate… What heals us? What tops us up? What creates ease in our nervous system? Who can assist us on our journey? And when can we step in and assist ourselves?
It’s taken a lot to bring me to this present moment in time, where the clarity is so crystal-clear.
It’s going to be different for each of us, but for me personally, I have come to understand I thrive when I have ample time in nature, going slow and soaking up the rhythm and sounds of the natural world. I thrive when I have access to like-minded people – to enjoy conversations and deeply contemplate ideas. I thrive when I seek out the right support people (particularly post-surgery) for healing and repair.
I’ve come to understand that in my attempt for survival (likely prompted by fear), post-surgery I surrounded myself with many (many!) different healing modalities and practitioners. It felt useful at the time - and much of it was immensely useful - but, it got to the point where I was having too many appointments each week. It was costly in the financial sense, it was costly from a time perspective, and I also began to feel “where am ‘I’ in all of this?” It was almost like I couldn’t ‘feel’ where I was within myself, within the world, without the impact and effect from the various treatments which had had their play with me that week.
So, I’ve been consciously winding things back. Cancelling some treatments (ie crossing out whole modalities), creating more space between the appointments I want to keep, and being very considered about what serves me best right now.
I can’t help but wonder (for us all)… I think we often know what our body needs or wants. We often do hear the quiet inner voice and what it informs of us (I know some don’t, and that’s a whole other conversation), but for those that do, I suspect sometimes we override or ignore the inner voice. “The specialist knows”, “the person with that ‘authority’ knows best”… and we hand ourselves over to what we or others or society tells us we should do.
When it comes to healing and repair, I feel we do ourselves a disservice if we’re not listening deeply and actioning what we need. Our body knows. Our inner self knows. Specialists and body-health-mind experts are awesome… I’m so grateful for the access I’ve had to many… but trusting our own inner authority has also got to be in the mix, and knowing how and when to seek out support, treatment and guidance, and what kinds we need at what time, is ever so important.
So, dear friends… listen deeply… back yourself… list or make a mental note of what sustains you (& in what frequency)… and get to it! Support yourself in your owns ways… seek out the support of friends and professionals when you need it… be selective about who you let work on your body/mind… and back yourself. The inner wisdom is there. Let’s use it to our advantage.
After all, we’re all healing from something… injury, illness, a broken heart, the impact of ‘life’… whatever it might be. We are all on a journey from fragmentation to wholeness. Let’s go!
Big LOVE,
Jacqui xx