17/07/2026
Dale Carnegie gave us some great advice when he said, “When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion."
And just before we blokes rush off with this new found secret of loving and respectful communication with the precious wife or partner, remember that this information is not gender exclusive.
It applies to you just as much as it applies to her.
Yes, you are a creature of emotion as well, so open up to your own emotional status and make sure you have extinguished any emotional fires that you may have burning before you communicate with what might appear to be the 'opposition'.
Remember to approach the peacemaking project with empathy. Your purpose at this time is only to 'seek to understand' why the girl feels the way she does, not to fix it. That's for another time. Your partner will be helped in believing that you truly understand her feelings and what is making her feel that way, without being judged for having them.
Whatever happens, BE KIND TO HER! You're the bloke, show some leadership toward the peace, love and friendship that you seek.
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