11/09/2026
Persistent pain can gradually change the shape of a life and can impact different areas of life; work, family, social relationships, exercise and physical activities, hobbies, travels & independence.
Over time, pain can start influencing decisions far beyond the painful body part.
This is 1 reason we ask people a different question:
What has pain pulled you away from?
In Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, this is closely related to values. The aim is to identify what matters and then look for realistic ways of moving toward it, even when pain is still present.
For 1 person that might mean getting back into the garden.
For someone else it might be seeing friends more often, returning to work, travelling, spending more time with family, or feeling more independent again.
Pain may still be part of the picture.
But it does not have to be the only thing deciding where life goes next.