25/06/2026
Week 11 of our school mentoring program reminded me that progress isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s found in the quiet moments.
Over the past few weeks, we’ve been supporting a young person who has found it incredibly difficult to engage in our mentoring program. There was understandable resistance, uncertainty and hesitation.
Rather than trying to force participation, we focused on what mattered most—building trust.
That meant showing up consistently, having gentle conversations, creating positive connections and allowing the relationship to develop at the young person’s pace.
Yesterday, something shifted.
One of our trainers, Julia, recognised that this young person was ready to take the next step—but only if it happened on her terms.
Without hesitation, Julia adapted the session. She created a small exercise space away from the rest of the group where they could move together in a way that felt safe, comfortable and free from pressure.
Between each exercise, they simply talked.
There was no rush.
No expectation.
Just movement, conversation and connection.
To me, this is exactly what exercise-based therapy can look like.
It isn’t about pushing people beyond their limits. It’s about meeting them where they are, helping them discover movement that feels achievable, gently expanding their confidence, and creating a space where meaningful conversations can naturally unfold.
What impressed me most wasn’t just the session itself—it was Julia’s ability to read the situation.
She recognised what this young person needed. She understood how to respectfully challenge her while maintaining a sense of safety and control. She adapted in the moment, built trust and created a pathway into the program that hadn’t been possible over the previous 11 weeks.
As a fellow mental health worker, watching Julia work was a reminder that great practitioners combine knowledge with compassion. They observe carefully, think flexibly and understand that connection always comes before change.
I’m incredibly fortunate to work alongside people like Julia. She embodies the values we strive for at Fit n Well—kindness, professionalism, adaptability and genuine care for the people we support.
Our participants benefit from her skills every day, and I have no doubt she has an incredibly bright future ahead of her.
Sometimes the biggest breakthroughs don’t happen through grand interventions.
Sometimes they begin with someone saying, “Let’s do this in a way that feels right for you.”
Those moments can change everything.