16/06/2026
💙 What do we really need when we're hurting?
In a culture that encourages us to be productive, resilient, and quick to move on, we've become less comfortable with simply offering comfort.
This insightful article by Antonieta Contreras, published in Psychology Today, reminds us that emotional pain is often a call for connection, not a problem to solve. Sometimes the most healing response is not finding the right words, but being present with someone in their struggle.
If you've ever wondered why validation alone doesn't always feel enough, this is a thoughtful and worthwhile read.
Read the full article here:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/traumatization-and-its-aftermath/202606/what-we-really-need-when-were-hurting
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