13/08/2026
From a young teen, I loved listening to others and finding nuggets of wisdom in our conversations, themes to reflect back, highlighting parts they were hiding or dismissing, igniting ideas…
And as I grew, I created a business doing so. After coaching, I studied and became a psychologist and enjoyed this work for so long, it is such a true privilege to me to hold people, especially during their most vulnerable times. This work also changed me as a person, I was evolving along side of it. Over the last couple of years something started feeling ‘off’, I questioned for so long whether I wanted to remain in the field, even though I’d built an entire business around it. I wanted more LIFE, more LIGHT. I found in being a psychologist that I was doing a lot of deep trauma work, not necessarily because I chose to, but because I was open to, and trauma work became a response to a demand. That demand took me away from creating and building, because I was in the trenches supporting others in pure survival. There is such importance and reverence in this work, however, I recognise for me, I also need to create and ignite. We cannot spend all our time analysing our problems, we must spend more time creating the life we wish to walk towards and unfurling the blocks along the way. It has only dawned on me that I can now choose what life I want to be creating too, and in the way I hold others. I had creating false limits around the way I serve others, I thought I had to discard my work because trauma work no longer fit where I was at. I thought this work was only for ‘coaches’ and that ‘enough of it existed’, my goodness what a load of bullocks I was feeding myself.
This is my season for holding those who have undergone deep work already, and are ready to create and build their dream life again. I’m unsure how this looks in terms of modalities, I’m just sharing my inner process as I move through it.