08/10/2026
MANIFESTING ISN'T JUST VISION BOARDS AND AFFIRMATIONS
When I first got into the Law of Attraction and learned the tools that go along with it, I thought it was all about affirmations, vision boards and other pretty fluffy things. 😍
But manifesting isn’t just about sitting there creating a vision board and saying affirmations about what you want for 1% of your day and thinking that’ll work for you when you spend the rest of your day hanging out with f**kwits who bring you down, speaking negatively to yourself, working in toxic environments, doom-scrolling for “fun” and doing f**k-all inspirational with your down time.
It’s about getting REALLY f**king clear on what you actually want to create in your life, while also noticing what’s currently in your life that doesn’t align with it – and decluttering the s**t out of that. 🚮
People, places, photos, old junk, emails, emotional baggage… all of it.
And of course, that takes time. ⏰
A lot of time, in a lot of cases – although it defo gets easier and quicker when you become a pro at it!
You also have to start noticing the limiting beliefs and expectations that are holding you back – and do something to change them. 🤗
This is where coaching and energy work come in really handy, because some of this stuff you just can’t do alone.
Another really important thing I learned is that you can manifest all you want – but if you don’t have a healthy level of self-worth then you may not believe you deserve to receive those things into your life – so self-worth is also something I really had to work on. 💞
You’ve got to recognise the opportunities as they present themselves to you in life and take inspired action – it’s not always going to be some big flashing neon sign saying GO THIS WAY or DO THIS THING – it may be way more subtle than that, like you’re walking down the street and then get an urge to go into a particular shop, where you bump into a particular person and have a conversation that answers a question you had.
Follow those nudges, they’re like little gold nuggets the Big U is sending your way to get you on your right path. 👉🏼
It’s also important not to think you have to be positive all the time – because, let’s face it, life is still life-ing and sometimes you feel like s**t – you don’t have to pretend otherwise out of fear that if you drop the ball for a second you’re going to manifest bad s**t your way. 💩
Just allow yourself to feel the feelings, process them, and then do what you need to do to shift your vibe to a higher state again. 🌀
Side note – the Big U will often deliver what you ask for in surprising ways so it’s important that you stay open for the outcome to look different from what you expected.
So… how clear are you on what you want to manifest right now? 🧐
Exclaim it LOUD in the comments or reply to me privately so I can cheer you on.
Happy manifesting,
Coach Carly xx
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