28/06/2026
Cold approach is a skill, and you can get very good at it with consistency.
It increases your confidence and teaches you how to get into a flow state, something I struggle with as an over-thinker.
There were occasions when I really surprised myself by being confident; other nights were tough. Eventually, rejection becomes: “Okay, could have been better, but damn, she missed out.”
Going the distance, having a mindset of giving, and knowing that you are building something greater is what matters.
It’s how I met my current girlfriend.
There is more to this story, many ups and downs, but I’ll leave it as this in the hope to inspire someone else’s journey of potential cold approach.
