05/08/2026
Something I've learned after years of supporting new mums: the babies I see in the first few days after birth, before things have gone wrong, very often don't go on to need much help at all.
It's not because those mums are lucky, or because their babies are "easy." It's because confidence in breastfeeding - real, lasting confidence - is built early, and it's built by a few specific things happening at the right time.
Getting the latch working well in those first days matters, not just for comfort, but because every good feed teaches a mother's body and her baby's body that this works. Small wins early on build belief, the same way anything difficult becomes easier once you've done it well a few times.
Seeing other women breastfeed matters too. It's one of the reasons I love our Breastfeeding Circle - mums often come along while they're still pregnant, before their own baby has even arrived, just to watch, ask questions, and take in how normal and varied breastfeeding actually looks. That kind of quiet, ordinary exposure does something that no amount of reading or googling can.
And the words used around a new mother matter more than people realise. Reassurance that's specific and honest builds confidence. Vague reassurance, or being told something different by every person she asks, chips away at it.
This is why I don't wait for a problem to show up before I see a mum. Support in the first days - while things are still forming, not after they've already gone wrong - changes the whole trajectory. It's not about fixing something broken. It's about helping something work well from the start.
If you're expecting, or your baby is only days old, I'd love to see you early - whether that's a one-on-one visit, or simply coming along to a Breastfeeding Circle to watch, listen, and know what's ahead. Our breastfeeding circle is on every Thursday and is free to attend.
Message me or visit my website to book a discovery call to see how I can support you and your breastfeeding journey.