28/08/2026
Lying in bed exhausted while your mind runs the day back on repeat. What you said. What you should have said. What is still not done.
In psychology this has a more precise name than overthinking. Rumination, or repetitive negative thinking, describes thought that loops without ever reaching resolution.
Part of what makes it so hard to stop is that it feels like work. Like you are solving something, preparing for something, preventing something. What it actually tends to produce is exhaustion and a sense of being stuck.
Thinking is useful when it moves toward an answer. When it becomes repetitive and rigid, the nervous system stays switched on and the sense of having any choice quietly disappears.
Mindfulness based approaches work by changing your relationship to those thoughts rather than trying to stop them. Available with our clinical psychologists at Randwick and Marrickville: https://f.mtr.cool/kvmcr70yxb