27/05/2026
Yesterday I had a conversation with a friend that really stopped me in my tracks.
She told me about an article discussing the NDIS and how, in many ways, the funding can be viewed as a monetary calculation of the cost of caring. She said something along the lines of, “If the NDIS has lifted even 20% of the workload from carers, imagine the true dollar value of what carers do every single day.”
And honestly… that hit me hard.
When my own world changed years ago, I lost my career, our financial security, opportunities, our home, cars, all the tangible things you can easily place a dollar figure on. I understood those losses because society understands those losses. They’re measurable.
But it never truly occurred to me that the work I was doing as a full-time carer actually had value too.
The countless appointments.
The emotional regulation.
The advocacy.
The sleepless nights.
The constant hypervigilance.
The planning.
The researching.
The preventing crises before they happen.
The carrying of an entire family’s emotional wellbeing on your shoulders.
That labour is often invisible. Especially when it’s done by parents.
We talk so much about the “cost” of the NDIS spending growth, but rarely about what that figure actually represents. Behind those numbers are families who were previously carrying impossible loads alone, often at enormous financial, emotional and physical cost to themselves.
The rapid growth of the NDIS is not simply a story about government spending. It’s also a reflection of the true cost that families have quietly absorbed for decades behind closed doors.
And perhaps for the first time, some of that invisible labour is finally being recognised.
Please don’t burden families with 100% of that cost again. Not because families don’t love deeply enough, work hard enough, or sacrifice enough, but because the true cost of care was never sustainable for families to carry alone. And in reality, it is not sustainable for our society or government either.
Somewhere along the way, we have to stop pretending that unpaid care comes without a cost. ❤️