02/11/2026
Have you found yourself wondering... When did I lose myself?
You've been so busy making sure everyone else is okay, being mum's taxi service, working around school schedules and medical appointments, helping parents with their needs.
And somewhere along the way, your own ideas, plans, and things you've wanted to do, or places you wanted to go, got pushed aside or even forgotten about.
Then one day, the kids get older and don't need you the way they used to any more and that's when you stop and think... what am I going to do now?
That's when you realise that you lost sight of what you wanted for yourself. You made decisions based on what everyone else needs or expects from you.
So here you are... feeling like you are stuck in a void... at a crossroads... and not sure which way to go, and that can feel scary.
But here's the thing. You now have the opportunity to do whatever you want. There is a new door waiting for you to open and walk through it.
You don't have to decide straight away what you are going to do and have it set in stone. Take this as an opportunity to try different things first. See what you love doing and what you hate. Then go from there.
You can still care about others while putting yourself first. There is no either/or. You can do both.
So ask yourself... What do I want? What dreams and desires do I want to reconnect with?
Have you reached this point in your life? I'd love to hear what you're thinking about doing next. 💜