06/11/2022
A common characteristic known within eating disorders/disordered eating is perfectionism and performance based mindsets.
Perfectionistic beliefs TRANSFERRED into the physical body hinders and distorts one's ability to see in full truth. Attempts to control a physical body through a 'symmetrical lens' (straight, even, proportional definition) contributes to the establishment of body dysmorphia.
"My tummy hangs over my jeans, my abs are not flat"
"My chin hangs lower than my jawline"
"My thighs don't have a straight gap"
For years I measured my body not only through the numbers on a scale, but through straight lines, even surfaces, defined edges and symmetrical appearances.
Rewiring years of body hate and dysmorphia is possible. A slow process, that requires acceptance and vulnerability.
Small reframes are a great place to start.
"Yes, my tummy hangs over my jeans. (Acceptance) I am willing to detach my worth from my appearance".
"I notice a double chin. I can also note that I can talk, eat, smile and sing".
"My legs may not have a gap, though are able to support my movements. I am choosing to appreciate their function".
"I am willing to let go of resistances that no longer serve me".
"I am practising to look beyond my body's image and appreciate my body's functions".