15/06/2026
The crying day/days in the first week postpartum. I always warn my clients about the crying day ... you'll be crying, not the baby... The crying day happens about day 3 and coincides with your milk coming in. It doesn't happen to every woman, but it happens to enough women that I always give a heads-up... you might feel like crying loudly and a lot around day 3 postpartum...
You don't have the 'blues' or postpartum depression, you probably aren't even sad! but you may feel like crying a lot and over everything. The best thing to do is
1. CRY, let it out, all of it, don't hold one little bit in.
2. make sure your family knows your cry plans and they walk tenderly around you
3. don't invite unwanted visitors on this day
4. Delegate other jobs (that aren't crying) to the other grown ups in your house.
Don't be scared of crying day, there is nothing wrong with you, your milk is just coming in, your hormones are changing and you're probably a bit sore and tired. A cry will do you good and tomorrow you'll feel heaps better.
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