01/09/2026
TW: choking - This is for anyone who gets turned on by consensual choking or being choked during sx. There’s no shaming or judgement here, scroll to 1:07 if you want a strategy I use with clients who want to expand their turn-ons beyond a specific behaviour or activity. Obviously would love for you to listen to the whole thing but I know attention spans are low and the second half has the actual ‘tool’.
Given the media coverage on the topic this week in Aus because of a recent tragedy, you may only now be aware that there’s no safe way to consensually choke or be choked, even for a few seconds.
Australian 24 hour crisis lines: Lifeline on 13 11 14 and 1800 RESPECT (1800 737732).
If you’re feeling distressed or would like therapy support around this, reach out
