16/06/2026
Letting go isn’t easy.
Life is full of transitions, and this weekend I had a big one, with my little girl leaving for 7 weeks in Europe.
I don’t think of myself as a neurotic parent but it’s been interesting to observe the desire to want to be in constant contact, to check in about how she is, where she is, how her day has been, if she’s feeling ok, what’s the accomodation like, is she feeling safe, is she having fun! All the usual Mum things 😵💫
And then I remember what it must have been like for my parents when I came travelling to the other side of the world at 22, and how infrequently I called them to check in.
No WhatsApp, no Instagram - just radio silence for weeks at a time.
A different time and a different world perhaps, but what it gave me was a sense of freedom, the opportunity to develop my inner capacity and resilience, to separate from the safety net of family and learn to stand on my own two feet, make decisions and navigate uncertainty.
Powerful and necessary life skills which are difficult to develop in the modern world thanks to our current technologies (and text addictions!) keeping us in constant contact.
So the greatest gift I can give her right now is the space to explore the world, make her own decisions and become more independent, knowing that I’m only ever a phone call away.
But geez it’s hard! 🥴