The Healing Abode

21/08/2026

OUR OVERDOING EXPECTATIONS
When we are in a habitual pattern of stretching ourselves beyond our natural rhythm, our deeper rested capacity, we tense our system.

Then we tend to tense towards others.
We quietly expect them to flagellate themselves into overdoing as well.
We may get resentful at them for not also doing for us. Usually because we are so deeply depleted, so we search for ‘more’, & expect people to run their systems how we do. Or our inner pain from how we are running our system becomes SO internally loud, the inner child throws tantrums, it doesn’t know how to slow to receive and be in true listening.

We want others to go against their natural rhythm to ‘keep up with us’ in this stressed state we are functioning from, so we have understanding or resonance, or will get our created needs met.

It’s why the over-worker struggles to find peace in restful people. The contrast is conflicting. It’s too telling. It rattles up the hidden restlessness we hide with our shiny exteriors and facades.

All of this, is us, not acknowledging our deeper, more natural rhythm.

See if you can take time to go inwards today, and meet the reality of your current rhythm, and cultivate the changes in your life that respect your rhythm. I hope you do. You deserve internal peace.

It might mean huge lifestyle changes.
I believe your reality, and inner state of being is worth those changes for peace.

And for those that read this at peace with themselves, have forgiveness (different to allowance or abuse) for all at unrest, and how they may lash out in their states.

10/07/2026

AUTHENTIC TRUTH. MY TRUTH. MY VOICE. MY EXPRESSION.
Sharing your ‘authentic truth’, your ‘voice’ is not a reasoning to verbally abuse others, or a valid excuse to be unbalanced in self > to > other relationship.

We are community creatures, yet I witness more & more societally, a deep rampant narcissism taking hold of our spirit. A repetitive self orientation. In a way that never seems to satisfy, but to only torment after false relief.

Perhaps that’s the question? Has your self orientation brought you any relief? Any lasting grace or loving awareness. Any internal peace. Any connection to life on level that connects to & nurtures the heart, faith, or allows you to maintain connection to this wonderful existence at least most of the time?

Often, these statements & framings are being utilised in a distorted fashion. Not always. Sometime the current is clean. But it’s rare I feel.

Can you digest your own moment?
Is it palatable?

Louder for those in the back that don’t practice resting with their words.

So how do we..digest experience.

In inviting grace and the deepest love available within us, into our shares, we access a sound maturity.

It is sad to see adults roaming around, lashing tongues with the energetics of teenagers. Hoping that pain will land in others just fine, validated, when it hasn’t even transformed within the self. When it’s deeply unsettled in the self. When it hasn’t BREATHED through the deep heart.

There is a difference between sharp…
And fiercely loving.
It’s up to us to practice love.
Especially with voice.

If we are not connected to heart, our share will possibly never land.

If it’s roaming in our minds still, there is heart available awaiting us to access it.
Perhaps that’s your journey if you’re struggling to connect.
Accessing your heart.

If you need support re-finding the heart, if it’s been that long, if you can’t even touch on what I speak of, please reach out for support.

My next available deep 1 on 1’s are in late September.

Be careful in choosing your guides.
Snake oil salesmen are everywhere.
Find someone you deeply respect & wholeheartedly trust.
Someone of service.

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05/12/2025

My Topical Magic ♥️🌹

Tick & Insect season is well underway & the requests are flowing in. I am making my mandatory batch of natural, Organic Unrefined Jojoba, Shea Butter, and organic MCT coconut oil based products, blended with high quality essential oils, to keep us all safe.

Not only are they effective, these blends are also extremely beneficial as energetic protection & physical wellbeing (great for the immune system and guarding the body from catching others sicknesses), creating silky skin, & have the benefit of low SPF naturally. *if you’ve forgotten. To apply your oil & have a tick latched on, smother them with this oil and wait 5-10 minutes. They should unlatch naturally and the blend should also help the site heal & support and possible infection clearing.

An all round protector & nourisher.

They are set with intention and can be tweaked if really needed.
DM for any oil sensitivities.

Pop your orders in now as I only do this twice a year usually.
If you hate your relatives arriving for X-Mass & spraying toxic painful harmful products into the space or on their bodies, this is the perfect gift too.

Tick & Insect Repellant Body Oil
Comes in a 50ml Pump Bottle or 100ml
Spreads easily and long lasting depending
50ml Original: $51
50ml Refills: $45
100ml Original: $88
100ml refill: $75

Gentle children’s Repellant Body Oil
Comes in a 50ml Pump Bottle
50ml Original: $40
50ml Refills: $35
100ml Original: $70
100ml Refill: $65
*Due to using a gentler dose & gentler type of essential oils, always use extra precaution with small children. Check their scalp, ears, toes and bodies after a day in nature, and avoid putting them in dark clothing (ticks are more likely to jump on dark colours).

Soothing Bite balm (also great as a gentle repellent)
30ml: $30
50ml: $45

Baby Bite Balm & Repellent
30ml: $30
Custom order made to order and age.
This is mild due to small children’s respiratory systems and absorbic nature.

*Continued in comments

05/12/2025

Tailored High Quality Perfumes *all natural
My favourite is my default blend
Rose, Sandlewood & Blue Lotus, and Eros.. 🌹
Prices start at $77

05/12/2025

Tick & Insect season is well underway & the requests are flowing in. I am making my mandatory batch of natural, Organic Unrefined Jojoba, Shea Butter, and organic MCT coconut oil based products, blended with high quality essential oils, to keep us all safe.

Not only are they effective, these blends are also extremely beneficial as energetic protection & physical wellbeing (great for the immune system and guarding the body from catching others sicknesses), creating silky skin, & have the benefit of low SPF naturally. *if you’ve forgotten. To apply your oil & have a tick latched on, smother them with this oil and wait 5-10 minutes. They should unlatch naturally and the blend should also help the site heal & support and possible infection clearing.

An all round protector & nourisher.

They are set with intention and can be tweaked if really needed.
DM for any oil sensitivities.

Pop your orders in now as I only do this twice a year usually.
If you hate your relatives arriving for X-Mass & spraying toxic painful harmful products into the space or on their bodies, this is the perfect gift too.

Tick & Insect Repellant Body Oil
Comes in a 50ml Pump Bottle or 100ml
Spreads easily and long lasting depending
50ml Original: $51
50ml Refills: $45
100ml Original: $88
100ml refill: $75

Gentle children’s Repellant Body Oil
Comes in a 50ml Pump Bottle
50ml Original: $40
50ml Refills: $35
100ml Original: $70
100ml Refill: $65
*Due to using a gentler dose & gentler type of essential oils, always use extra precaution with small children. Check their scalp, ears, toes and bodies after a day in nature, and avoid putting them in dark clothing (ticks are more likely to jump on dark colours).

Soothing Bite balm (also great as a gentle repellent)
30ml: $30
50ml: $45

Baby Bite Balm & Repellent
30ml: $30
Custom order made to order and age.
This is mild due to small children’s respiratory systems and absorbic nature.

*Continued in comments

13/09/2025

We must create healthy ‘stressors’. Experiences that stretch & challenge us. This requires our devotion to moments, ones that meet an edge for us.

In a world where most of us have grown up with unhealthy stress, we have become a society addicted to stress (even though we say we don’t want it!)

We MUST BRIDGE the experience.

I encounter this regularly in the world, in my clients, friends, family & relationships of all forms.

People are desiring restoration, yet it often becomes collapse or an avoidance of life & inability to feel safe in meeting the moment.
Usher in the age of = cancelling, leaving, inability or unwillingness to exercise communication, short term relationships & an inability to see endeavours, business & visions through.

So what do we do in this day and age? In this scenario?
We must replace our poor stressors with positive ones. Ones that GROW our capacity & ability to meet & be in life. That brings experience of the FULFILMENT that comes from being in life, or doing something ‘hard’. We must create experiences for ourself where we become more of the version of us, that we would take pride & honour in.

Try jujitsu, swimming in icy creeks, making weird noises, replacing your social media time with an interesting podcast or healing meditation. Planning a challenge or adventure for yourself and putting it into action.
Really.. commit anything that’s an opening edge, small or large and SEE IT THROUGH.
It’s going to vary for person to person.

Men and women may differ in their choices here.
We may vary on what we are called to.
Why is this so important?

Well if you desire successful, rewarding & real relationships, friendships, community connections, businesses, internal & external life experience with depth, you will need to rewire your unhealthy dispositions.

Otherwise you may find yourself destroying the thing you called in, creating drama, pain, stress and looking for problems in the areas of life you actually wanted & chose. Because your system is not getting the ‘stress’ it is used to & has been programmed with, either in this lifetime, or down your ancestral line.
Continues in comments..

16/06/2025

Everything surrounding you pays the toll when you don’t create regular devotional time to deepen with you, including you.

18/05/2025

Everything I do in my passion, is intimate, is healing.
An oil, blend, healing balm, or 1 on 1 session, is tailored to you, and your energy. What you’re moving through, what supports you on a deeper level than appearances would have others perceive.
I have a devotion to your inner world 🖤

A healing prayer bottled
Made to order 🥀

09/05/2025

Taking the time.
In a society addicted to processing fast, processing BIG, processing can become an evasive tactic to feeling or perpetuate ‘rollarcoasting’ emotionally.
Sometimes, an experience needs its personal time to exist and unravel. To reveal, be seen and perhaps to dissipate or integrate.

The next experience you have that feels ‘difficult’ to be with to move through, might be slower or longer than the last experience you had, or faster.

My recommendation here, is just taking a few slow breaths, to tune in with what will support and suit you.

It may be time.
A conversation with a friend.
A session with your healer.
A walk in the forest.
To share what’s on your heart with someone.
A hand to hold.
A moonlight street walk.
To journal.
To do movement.
To run.
To play.
To punch pillows and scream as loud as you can, for as long as you can.
To dive to the bottom of the creek and stay there.
To have your housemates or partner tickle you until you can’t breathe.
It might be silence, or quietness.
To read a book or watch a familiar show that grounds you.
To pray.
To have a cup of tea and breath deeply.
It can be so many things.

Who am I to say, what suits you, today.
But I am here, to remind you, that it can look any way.
All you need to do is attune, to you, to guide your way.

With love,
Chantelle x

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18/04/2025