11/06/2026
One of the most rewarding parts of supporting kindy teams is watching a childβs nervous system shift from protection to participation.
Through one of our mentor sessions yesterday, an educator reached out about a little who is having a tricky time. She needs constant reassurance, asks lots of questions, and constantly monitors her environment and the people around her. Her mum is understandably concerned and wondering what else might help.
Together, we explored some simple regulation activities, including the Cuddle Ball and Cookie Dough. Nothing complicated. No pressure. Just practical tools the educators could use to help her body experience safety, predictability, and success.
This morning, her educator sent us a message. "Ruby asked me for the ball."
That small moment is significant, not because she completed an activity, or because an adult prompted her. But because she recognised something helped her body and independently sought it out again.
This is what we're creating in kindy rooms and lounge rooms all over the country. Not to make children dependent on adults to regulate them, but to help them develop awareness of their own nervous system, recognise what supports them, and begin accessing those tools independently.
For children who experience anxiety, the answer is not always to push harder, talk more, or demand bravery. Sometimes the most effective intervention is helping the body experience enough safety that the brain no longer needs to stay on high alert.
When that happens, we often see what was there all along beneath the worry: curiosity, play, confidence, connection, and joy.
That is why early intervention matters. Not because we're fixing children.
Because we're helping them discover the tools that allow them to be themselves.