08/08/2026
Last week, we set up a small kiosk to talk to older people and their families about aged care. We didn't expect to hear what we heard.
One after another, people sat down and told us the same story with different names attached.
A wife trying to get her husband moved from CHSP to Support at Home, stuck for months in a process nobody could explain to her.
A daughter who'd been told her father qualified for more support, but had no idea how to actually get the paperwork moving, or who to call when nobody called back.
An elderly man on his own, holding a folder of forms he didn't understand and hadn't been able to bring himself to open.
Some of them had given up. Not because they didn't need help, but because the process of asking for it had worn them down more than the thing they actually needed help with.
We know this story from the inside. When our own mum needed support, the approval took so long that by the time it came through, it no longer mattered. That's not a rare story. We heard it, in different forms, all afternoon.
NDIS gets a lot of the public attention when it comes to system frustration. But talking to people last week, aged care felt like it was carrying just as much strain, if not more, with far less noise made about it. The people affected are often older, more isolated, and less likely to have someone advocating loudly on their behalf.
The truth is, the paperwork side of aged care is a genuine barrier for a lot of people. It's not that the support doesn't exist. It's that getting to it can feel like its own full time job, and plenty of people navigating it are already exhausted, unwell, or completely on their own.
So last week, we told a few of the families we met that we'd sit with them and work through it. Not as a service we bill for. Just because someone needed to, and we were there.
We can't fix how slow or confusing the system is. But we can make sure the people we meet aren't left to face it by themselves.
If you're in the middle of this right now, or watching someone you love struggle through it, what's been the hardest part?
And for the coordinators, assessors, and discharge planners in our community who see this bottleneck from the other side, what would actually make the biggest difference for the families you're referring?