10/09/2026
Transition is the final phase of labour before you start pushing, usually around 8–10cm. It’s often short, but it can be the most intense part of labour. It’s also often when your birth partner gets caught off guard, because how you’re behaving can change so quickly.
You might shake, feel sick, become overwhelmed or suddenly say things like, “I can’t do this.” You could become restless, irritable or desperate for everyone to stop talking to you.
Some women do the opposite instead, becoming very quiet, turning inward and seeming almost far away.
Both can be completely normal.
With an epidural, transition can be harder to spot, because the physical sensations that usually signal it are less noticeable. You may become very still or quiet, change your breathing or posture, become intensely focused, or simply seem different from how you were earlier in labour.
This is why preparation matters — not just knowing what might happen, but helping your birth partner know how to show up for you when it does. What that looks like can change as things unfold, but a partner who’s prepared is more likely to stay calm and steady with you.
Want your birth partner to feel more confident going into moments like this? I think preparing your birth partner matters just as much as how you prepare yourself. It’s woven through everything I teach.