30/08/2026
“BUT THEY’RE FINE AT SCHOOL…”
Then they get home — and everything falls apart.
The meltdowns. The anger. The tears. The withdrawal. The exhaustion.
For some neurodivergent children, this can be the result of spending hours masking — working incredibly hard to meet expectations, manage sensory discomfort, navigate social situations and suppress their natural responses.
By the time they reach home — often the place where they feel safest — there may simply be nothing left in the tank.
That’s why we need to look beyond the behaviour.
Instead of only asking “How do we stop this?”, we should also be asking:
“What happened before this?”
“What is this behaviour communicating?”
“What support does this child need?”
Understanding the WHY allows us to build better strategies, environments and skills around the child.
💜 Behaviour is information. Understanding it is where meaningful support begins.
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