07/07/2026
I had a dream last week. On of the ones where you aren't awake but you aren't asleep....yeh those ones π.
Spirit gave me an interesting perspective on judgement. I was in a space, talking to people and, I don't share much often...but I shared a tiny bit and I had similar responses but just delivered differently.
One judgement came snappily, speaking down to me.
The next came sarcastically.
The next came quietly from a distance.
The next came from someone who said nothing but had built a huge fort around themselves but with a window so they could stand from above watching.
Anyway. You get the picture. All of these women had made assumptions. They had judged that what I was doing was wrong. No matter which was it was delivered kindly, angrily etc their judgement was shaming me.
I thought ha. Interesting π€. I tend to sit back and observe before thinking or speaking.....
Then I heard spirits voice say. 'It is their fear. Lack. Pain. Unlived experience speaking. Some people snap. Some people build walls. Some people...(fill blank)'
I thought ha. Interesting. How icky is this world becoming where everyone has an opinion and their opinion is right. What if. Instead of opinions people were to practice being impartial or to get curious and ask questions. To observe and feel before thinking and speaking. Reflect on their thoughts before letting their projecting out.
Everyone is whole and resourceful. Everyone has everything they need within.
What people need is to be lovingly held. Unconditional connection.
If you are judging, shaming, giving advice, trying to fix, heal, help or do for another thats actually your stuff not theirs.
If the way someone is living their life triggers you. That's yours not theirs.
Let's stop making people wrong. Boundaries is a big topic but first. Let's try having self awareness before setting boundaries..... ooo this just popped in.
Who judged/ shamed/ made you wrong for who you are/ how you show up or live your life? How old were you? What did your body feel? What does it need? Give that to yourself. π